Are guys more turned on by virginal girls?

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Like I know they never believe you're a virgin, but when you're high strong on not having sex with them and you stand your ground, does it turn them on even more to pursue you? Or is it an instant turn off and they just give up? I know guys like a challenge and I'm pretty much a challenge since I don't give it up. I won't give it up and I'm fine with using a vibrator on occasion. But I'm dating this guy. He's 5 years older than me. He knows I'm a virgin. He gets horny like any other guy does. We have not had oral sex or even a handjob. But he likes to try to make me horny and wet and will try to go in my panties. Which I tell him to stop and I sit far away from him. He has reached in my panties before and rubbed my clit and sometimes I'll let him continue but if he tries to go inside with his fingers, I grab his hand out and sit far away or tell him good night. He also likes to tie my hands behind my back and kiss my neck hard, split my legs open and dry hump me. I'll admit it feels really good but I don't want it inside me or even rubbing on me raw. However, I think I should avoid going to see him for a couple of days. Even when there's people around, he'll try to get me alone to make me moan or he'll say dirty words when we're out in public to make me blush. He also wants to do it in public. Like if no one's around, he'll dry hump me from behind. Or if other people are around and he's hugging me from behind, I'll feel him getting a boner and he'll tell me not to move and that even the smell of me gets him horny and he'll kiss my neck. What's up with you guys?

bombdotcom · Accepted Answer

Judging by your post, you're playing games. You're using this to determine whether it's cute or not and it's not. That's how it comes across, I'm not accusing you.

Understand that if a man breaks up with you because of this, it doesn't make him an ass. It's about compatibility. You need to find someone you're compatible with and who shares your values; likewise, he would need to find someone he's compatible with and who shares his values.

For some guys, it might initially spark interest but after a while when they realize they're getting no where (and you aren't just bluffing), they'll get tired of it.

if it's truly your stance then you need to make it loud and clear that way HE is on the same page and isn't assuming that you'll eventually give it up

MaskofInsanity · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy.

Some guys like virgins, or "innocent" girls, because they feel like they're "conquering" her.

Some just like girls who are hard to get (for the challenge or because they like sexually conservative girls).

Some guys won't date girls who "withhold" or have rules about sex (e.g. my male mates say they lose interest if the girl holds out for too long, because they think they have different attitudes towards sex).

Others really don't care.

MissConfused93 · Accepted Answer

Been dating a guy for almost three years. Far from a virgin. He acts exactly like the guy you're dating. It's called a sex drive. Not abnormal. And not because you're a virgin.

AwesomeErich · Accepted Answer

At first I thought it read are guys more turned in by vaginal girls? I'm like thinking to myself wait that can't be right all girls have a vagina then I had to read it again and read it as virginal girls I'm like ya now my vision and brain seeing it as the way it is make more sense! Lol but anyway in general speaking some guys are some guys aren't it depends his mind set when it comes to taking his time or rushing sex virgin girls require more sensitivity and time to relax and not hurt so much during their first time and guys need to respect that not just rushing it!  But ya I pretty much like experienced partners at my stage in my sexuality not that being a virgin there is anything wrong with it because I do think it's awesome! :D

Dumbassgenius · Accepted Answer

No I am terrified of virgins. I have a fear of taking a girls virginity. I prefer complete sluts to be honest because they perform better in the bedroom. I wouldn't marry a slut though.