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What do you think of attractive men who choose to be virgins until they are 30?

I have a friend named Isaiah who is 25 and has not had sex ever in his life. In fact, he has not even ejaculated since the age of 20. He says that by doing this he is preserving his "vital fluid" for the time he is 30 and will have a child. He has not had even a single nocturnal emission due to his wearing of a chastity device while asleep. It is his goal to have the strongest baby possible so he is detoxing his body of artificial chemicals and toxins through a raw food diet so he can experience the greatest health. He meditates for 2 hours a day to try and raise his spirit energy and unleash his creative force. He is single and works as a biomedical engineer and has his own house he calls his "sanctuary of peace and unity" Is he just plain mad?
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  • As someone who has a degree in biomedical chemistry myself I can tell you that nothing good can come from this.

    If he wants the "strongest baby possible", even disregarding the fact that you just can't fully control these things, he is actually doing it wrong. A lot of what I'm about to say is uncertain but definitely research shows a relation in that regard than the other way around:

    In regard to trying to have the "strongest baby possible"

    - you shouldn't wait until you are 30 to have children, the earlier the better.

    - you should eat properly with enough proteins and minerals.

    - you should have as much orgasms and ejaculations as possible. Men have a infinite number of sperm cells, unlike women who have a limited number of eggs. Also, you are ruining your prostate and more likely to "keep toxins in" than be detoxing.

    - in stead of talking bullshit and acting like a social parasite he should be going out finding a young, healthy, strong woman. Because she provides 50% of the baby's potential and he isn't going to hatch one himself, now is he?!

    Your friend sounds like a self absorbed ass if you ask me.

    One more thing: you can not, not ejaculate for years.

    So he's either a liar or something is seriously wrong with his reproductive tract.

    • You look like an ass, and you have a sketchy beard. You suck at life My friend is awesome and is a living saint on planet earth please don't reply again and spew your filth Goodbye

    • DA just gave you the correct facts. You're the one who looks like an ass, QA.

    • And why should I take advice seriously from a Neandethal and someone who looks like a cross between Will Sampson and Guillermo? Why am I getting suck wacky people commenting on my posts. Go Away

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  • Sperm is like spit.There's plenty more where it came from,and you don't have a limited lifetime supply.If you're healthy there will always be more.You'll be even more healthy if you use some now and then.Sex is good for your health.

    Eating healthy food with less chemicals is a good idea.Even fruit and vegetables can have traces of insecticides and herbicides which aren't good.They cause a reduction in hormones and sex drive,moreso now than ever before.

    • He knows about that and makes sure he only eats organic and bio-dynamic plant foods. He goes so far as to grow his own foods and walk out in nature to pick herbs and fruits off of trees. He gets routine blood work done and his testosterone levels are stabilized at a healthy blood concentration.

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  • Honestly, I think it is a load of nonsense, but each to their own. He doesn't hurt anyone by doing what he is doing so it is entirely up to him

    But:

    how will he guarantuee that when he has sex the woman will actually fall pregnant straigth away?

    Most couples have to have sex quite a lot till the baby is actually conceived...it could take months even up to a year...

    so he saves up all his vital fluid - which there is really no need for, it replenishes as it gets used...but then has to ''waste it trying to get her pregnant? that just seems odd to me.

    Doesnt seem that he has thought this through,

    then genetics:

    Male part of DNA gets combined with female DNA

    but it isn't 50/50

    there is such a thing and dominant genes and recessive genes

    if his genes are not as strong as hers (and sorry there is no way to change this, it is who you are) then he will not actually pass on very much at all, as the dominant genese determine what the child will actually be like.

    as a woman, I would be finding his approach a bit creepy and stay well clear...sorry

    I would also like to add that this is putting a rather insane amount of pressure on the baby to be perfect, which isn't great for children to be growing up...

    • what's creepy about it? You need psychological counseling if you think people living an ascetic lifestyle are creepy. According to your logic: Jesus is creepy. Buddha is creepy. The pope is creepy. Dalai lama is creepy. If you had 1/10000 of the willpower this man has, maybe you would be able to appreciate his self-control.

  • For someone who works in science, his logic seemed flawed.

    Saving his sperm for years won't turn it into super sperm and create a perfect child. Where the hell does he read/hear that stuff? I don't think it's in any scientific journal. It's not even logical, if you use your rational thinking...

    And no chemicals by eating raw food? Does he plant his own tomatoes etc? Because pesticides are also chemicals. There was also an experiment that shows how all these detox diet is bogus and makes you have less energy than people who eat a well-balanced diet.

    About his meditating and what he calls his house, I don't care. To each their own. But those 2 things are just not scientific. But then again, there are a lot of scientists who are mad. I just find it crazy that his beliefs are not based on science at all.

  • I think this seems mad, but hey, different strokes for different folks! His self control is inspiring I guess!

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  • No it seems he just want the best for himself and his future and so he is being proactive about it and perhaps the medical field he works in has a lot to do with it too. All the same if by not ejaculating does not hurt him physically and he continues to be healthy then all is well...unless it just a line men use not to be bothered with dating certain people

  • yes

  • This man sounds like the most amazing person in the world. His self control is incredible, and his devotion to this goal is astonishing. I hope he chooses the right woman to bear his child, because it sounds like it will be a beast of a human being.

    • That is what I think, he makes me fresh juices when I go over and teaches me Tai Chi moves

  • Nice thing about where I come from is we all have the right to do and be as we please if we are not harming someone else!

  • You must be playing lol. This guy doesn't really exist.

  • He sounds like an idiot.

  • Yeah. The number of healthy sperm capable of fertilization decrease with age, so he's missed the mark. Ideally men should ejaculate every three days I've heard. Also you being healthy and not ejaculating doesn't make your DNA any better so the child wouldn't be effected. He's a nut.

    • I learned all of this is my high school biology course... SO your friend can't be very bright.

    • He graduated college at the age of 19, got a phD in Mathematics He is also a master rank chess player and works on unsolved conjectures in complex analysis and topology for fun. He belief is the the abstinence from self indulgence and living an ascetic lifestyle will enable him to focus on his work uninterrupted by sexual distraction, and that living clean will decalcify and alkalize the tissues in his body, improving cellular communication.

    • Getting your phD in mathematics doesn't involve learning common sense or biology. Hence the "go back to high school."

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  • He sounds like a lunatic.

    • People also thought Jesus was a lunatic. Guess what happened to him?

    • Jesus also turned water into wine. When your friend can do that, let me know.

    • No, but he can turn wine into water by boiling, filtering and distilling

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  • I think that it is up to every individual person to decided what they would like to do. To me I would respect that and I think that its nice to hear.

  • I don't think he is insane for doing that while the masses are losing their vital energy for cheap thrills. If it keeps him on his mission, I think its quite noble and admirable of him while the others are dumping toxins in their bodies such as drugs and alcohol like candy.

  • If he is not hurting anyone why should this be a problem? He can live his life the way he wants to live it.

  • Apparently some engineers suck at science. Vital fluids? Don't buy it. If he really wants to do these things then OK but it really does not seem scientifically sound at all. The healthy diet is a good idea and all but spirit energy? Again don't buy it. Again this is the divide between engineering and science. Some engineers need to have some proper respect for the scientific method if they have respect for technology.

  • is he training to be a monk? mung bean sprouts are the best for this.

  • I'm 28 and have never had sex before either. So I know how hard it is to remain abstinent.

    But I do masturbate quite frequently.

    So I do heavily admire his level of discipline. He has far more than I.

  • Your friend might be on to something.

  • Lol he reminds me of Dwight Schrute from The Office. He wanted a baby with superior genes so he sought out a woman who had good traits.

    In real life, I don't think saving "vital fluids" is actually a thing.

    • By vital fluids I mean sperm held within the testes, so yes it is actually a thing

    • And he is much better looking than dwight schrute

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