Why do girls try to seduce me?

Well to start with, I'm a virgin. Why do girls try to say and suggest sexual things to me? Which means making sexual jokes and talking about my private parts and talking about their own and stuff? This girl specifically I was talking to, she started it, she kept talking about sexual stuff and making jokes with saying "I would probably rape you hahaha" and she goes on and on about it. I thought girls hated perverts, so why is she trying to make me into one? What am I supposed to say/do? Do I just go along with it? Will I be seen as a pervert, or do I just tell her to stop it? Should I just be neutral about it? What should I do? I think she wants me but I don't want to come off as a pervert (and I'm a virgin) so should I say things back or something? I need advice from a female because I know what the guys are probably gonna say.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well if you looked like Death the kid in real life, I'd seduce you too. Maybe not talk about sex, but I'd flirt or downright kiss you lol.

    But if you're not interested in her, you should let her know. You going along with it is a sign she can keep talking about sexual stuff to you. Not all girls hate perverts. We hate perverted guys we're not attracted to. But if you're attractive, we'll accept your hentai ways.

    • Well, the thing about me is that I don't mind if someone is unattractive because it doesn't make me more or less comfortable depending on their looks. The girl in question is attractive but it doesn't automatically mean anything. Well, perverted guys can't tell if they are attractive or not. It varies from girl to girl so hating them is a bit strong :P maybe just telling them you don't like their style is enough. Yeah I look like him in real life that's actually why I use his picture.

  • well needless to say the chick digs you she totally wants you so it up to you if you like it and wanna go for it then go along with it she will pull the first move if you go along with it, if you don't like it tell her to stop it makes you feel uncomfortable

    • It doesn't actually make me uncomfortable. I wouldn't have sex with her but I want to know what to say back to her without appearing like a boring prude.

  • I think she wants to take your innocence - don't some guys fantasize about corrupting an innocent girls. Don't let her. When you are older, you will regret having too much experience.

    • Okay I won't let them (I'm nervous about actually doing it) but how do I make a joke without sounding super pervy or prude? I don't wanna be boring

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  • This is friend world . , , , , , If you get angry about this topic then your friend more talk bout this topic . ...

    • I have no idea what you said, sorry.

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  • Guys can say NO as well!

  • I think its because they like you, and theyre probably horny...

  • Sounds like they find you attractive.

    • What should I say back to them?

  • maybe your a hot virigin.

    • Maybe those same girls do it to everyone else. You never know

    • maybe but they wouldn't do it to somebody they found ugly