What are some reasons a guy comes quickly?

[tiredoflies]

I was recently with this guy who came quickly and I am wondering what some possible reasons could be.. I've always heard that a guy will come quickly while having sex if he hasn't had any in a while - how true is that? I've also heard it could be from being too excited (but this guy is experienced and we've been together before just not frequently recently) I'm curious what it could be... nervous, over excited, guilt, or a while since last time? Guys any thoughts?

[thetundrawolf]

While we are in the act of sex, we are overwhelmed, oftentimes. We feel that orgasm creeping up on us. It begs to be released. It's not like with you ladies. You can come and come and cum. When we cum, we're done. The orgasm for us is like a beautiful woman, beckoning us. She is smiling, her naked body is ready for the taking, Extending out a long, sexy finger, she entices us to her. We are raging, and rock hard, ready to feel her hot, sweet, wet warmth wrapped around our thick cocks.

Sometimes it can be because we masturbate. A lot. We are used to having minimal stimulation during those times. So when we are actually in the act, your heat, your scent, your moans, your spirit, your heart, all come together and slap us in the face.

We just can't help it.

That sweet lady beckons to us, and we go in to her.

He can take steps to try and edge his desires. Masturbate until he's on the edge of orgasm, and train his mind to resist the urge to spill his seed. When he is good enough at this he can come on cue. I have mastered my body to where I can stop myself mid orgasm. (Not in a woman, though. >.>) With enough training, anything is possible. And you might ask, why would you want to stop yourself mid orgasm? Because when I got the rest of the way, the orgasm is ten times as strong. I don't know why. But I moan like a girl when I come a second time.

[heythere]

Well, the more you turn him on, the quicker he'll be able to do that. You must be doing something right.

[Anonymous]

been too long since he has last gotten some sex

he simply got too excited to fast, he is sloppy and out of control

[BayHarborButcher]

Could be nerves or he hasn't had relief in a while.

[jacquesvol]

Nerves, that'spossible, indeed.

[mikesta22]

Pretty much not having any in a long time can definitely be one reason..also due to that we get so excited to be having some regardless if we're experienced lol..if a guy doesn't have any in a while it doesn't benefit it us like it does girls, we lose our technique..u girls gain from not having any because you csn become tighter than what you were prior..so yeahh I would say a lack of sex will make a guy come fast..as would a tight vagina as well

[smokeythoms]

You're old enough to know that he just was too excited, or he hadn't had any relief lately. I hope you're flattered and not angry at him.

[tiredoflies]

Hey thanks for thinking you know more about me & my life than I do. I'm shaking my head at your arrogance. Was not in the slightest bit angry.

[jacquesvol]

It's long ago now but I remember 2 ONS: with one I came in a few strokes (unusual) , with the other I didn't come at all. No feelings involved in either. Why then? I don't really know. Different body type desired that evening maybe? (mind and fantasy at work...)

Most guys put their right hand at work if there's no willing girl, thus no real shortage that way.

But not all guys are the same. Some always come too quickly, others have problems to come, just like some girls.

[tiredoflies]

This wasn't a ONS. We've had relationship in past but its been a while.

[Cowboy6666]

It happens to guys Because its a disease called premature ejaculation which happens of guys involved in frequent sex, p*rn movies etc.

[sallgood]

they can either be really turned on

or you could have a really warm you know what

[Anonymous]

Also my problem. If my wife and me haven't done it in a while, I can't stand really long. If we keep a regular pace of about once a day, it's no problem to go longer time.