Should I get a thong? When should I surprise my boyfriend with it?

[SeekingWater]

I have always been curious about getting a thong, one like this link or maybe something lacy too. Lace is always good ahaha

I also have a boyfriend of eight months, (we are sexually active if you need that info) and I am wondering, which would be most appropriate time to let him know that I am wearing one?

-valentines day (in four days, and its my first Valentine's day with him ever)

-his birthday (may 9th)

-one year anniversary (June 9th)

-as soon as I get one, lol.

as for details, can you help me out here?

is it considered slutty or unattractive if I wear a thong? if not, what WOULD make it slutty or unattractive? I don't want to be misunderstood, especially by my boyfriend.

what do they feel like? All I've ever worn is boyshorts, hipsters and bikinis

how do you keep 'whale tail' from happening? I'm only intending for my boyfriend and I to see these, not the entire world.

thanks!

Valentines day (its my first Vday with my boyfriend ever)

His birthday (in May)

1 year anniversary (June)

As soon as I get one...?

Other (COMMENT PLZ)

[Red_Arrow]

Which day? Each one of those a new one. After you get a few sexy ones and find what turns him on the most, you can slow down buying and go for the ones he likes the most. Thongs are sexy adn there are variations to try. Some other types are link link link Of course, these are ideas for style, not suggesting you need to go to that seller.

Lots of women wear thongs, all the time. Does not make them slutty or unattractive. Some women like clothes that would show a panty line if they wore regular panties, so a thong works best for avoiding panty lines.

Avoid showing whale tail by making sure your top covers it, even when crouching.

[Red_Arrow]

Thanks for BA

[SeekingWater]

no problem:)

[stubbsy]

Thongs are only nice if they fit perfectly, and often than not, they don't, because they are made to one fit, where models have them made to fit, and to be honest, they are over rated, because they leave nothing or hardly anything to the imagination, which is essential for any guy to get any thing from sexy underwear, we need some left to stimulate the imagination, so to me you will be better trying these,x

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[SeekingWater]

ok, I'm thinking of checking those out too.

[stubbsy]

Expose the bottom half of your bum cheeks not all of them, and get him to appreciate you by showing just enough for him to become excited, but if you don't allow room for imagination and surprise, you might ruin the full affect you and your body will do to him once he peels them off you,x

[SeekingWater]

good thinking! I will get one of each kind, and maybe just wear a thong for my own leisure. if he likes it a lot, well then lol.

I recently have been trying to figure out what kinds of things will make his imagination run wild, so this helps me quite a bit. what other things do you think can do that for a guy?

[stubbsy]

Well, a t-shirt and no panties, will always do the trick, but only if he kept at arms length. Almost tease him that you have nothing underneath, but don't let him touch or see, only show what you think he needs to see, and this really will drive those senses wild lol,x

[SeekingWater]

ooh what a good idea. he loves it when I wear just jeans and a bra, so I can play around with that too

[Anonymous]

As long as you get one that fits you'll be fine. They take a little time to get used to wearing (I bought my first thong 6 months ago) and so allow a time to wear it once or twice before he sees it so during your special sexy time with him you're not constantly readjusting lol.

[JamielovesKU]

I think you should surprise him with it when you feel you're ready.

[WhiteSteve]

Honestly, I'm trying to remember the last time I saw a pair of underwear that WASNT a thong. I thought that was the standard these days, I haven't seen full-backed underwear since the late 90s, except I think my girl keeps a few pairs to wear during her time of the month, which she would never let me see her in. I don't think you'll get any resistance from your boyfriend on this one, I don't know many guys who prefer non-thong underwear over thongs. So my answer would be to rock them ASAP. Whale tail is kind of an occupational hazard, though. It makes a guy's day to spot one, haha. And no offense, when I see a girls underwear exposed a little and its NOT a thong, I'm disappointed. Not that I'm a creep who goes looking for it, haha, but once in a while it just happens. But if you're looking to avoid pervs like me, hahaha, I see most girls kind of grab their back belt loop to hold their pants in place when they squat down.

[SeekingWater]

yes it seems the more years go by the less girls wear. I'm just curious to try new things. and ill have to practice that sitting technique lol

[irthonger]

Sounds like a fun time. Just wear them. They are just underwear. They are sexy but still no big deal.

The thing about whale tail is that if it is a hot girl and it is unintentional it os hot, super hot. If it is an unattractive girl then it is not. If it is a hot girl and intentional it really depends on how people view it. I dont mind the fashion of the side strings sticking up from tight pants and wearing a cut off shirt. Especially if you are at the beach. Or at a club, rave, party. But if you are walking around town or grocery shopping like that, i can see how someone might mistake you for a prostitute. Lol.

[Randyboy111]

Sooner is better so Valentine's day! They are really hot so definitely try it out he will love it. It isn't slutty because it'll only be with your boyfriend and he will love it so you got no problems go for it

[SeekingWater]

is there anything that could happen to make it slutty, so I know what to avoid?

[Randyboy111]

Na it isn't slutty it's just hot

[SeekingWater]

lol ok