My boyfriend doesn't really make any noises during sex, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

I've talked to him and asked him about it and he said it feels better to him not to make noises. But this really bothers me, and it would also make me a lot more turned on hearing him be turned on. Is it something I'm doing? Any suggestions or comments would help ;)

[Smilie-xo]

The good news is, your not doing anything wrong, and nothing is wrong with him. Every person is different and so if he doesn't make a noise it is perfectly ok. I guess you could ask him to make noise, but he isn't comfortable doing that and would probably fake it, which is Lame. =P

[SilentWishes720]

Some guys are the silent type. There isn't anything wrong with that and I doubt you are doing anything wrong either.

Focus on his face. He may not make noise but I bet pleasure is written all over his face. =D

[Asker]

Thats a good idea!!! haha have you ever had a guy do this before??

[SilentWishes720]

Yeah, my boyfriend won't moan so I just focus on his face...I can tell you, it works. haha. =D

[tyrantfuryre]

Believe it or not, the woman actually gets more pleasure from sex than the man does. Personally, I keep quiet because if I make any noise myself it actually distracts me.

[Asker]

Really? I thought that men have more pleasure from sex than women. How do you know this? You might be right with the whole distracting thing.

[tyrantfuryre]

Look it up. Your vagina is much more sensitive than a penis. The most sensitive part on a penis is the head. That's really just a portion of our part....

[Asker]

Very true :)

[tyrantfuryre]

Well actually if you look, you'll probably find a lot of things will say the "clitoris" is more sensitive than the "head" of the penis. =P

[winterphox]

Except that during regular penis in vagina sex, the clitoris receives almost no stimulation whereas the penis is almost consistently stimulated. Sex unequivocally feels better for guys, trust me on this one.

[tyrantfuryre]

You have double the amount of sensor receptors in your privates than men do. They have the ability to enjoy it more. Whether they do or know how to is a different story.

[tyrantfuryre]

@winterphox You speak for all women? I wrote this 6 years ago. lol

[l-hedoniste]

Some of us are just quiet. I can be noisier if asked, but I find it distracting, so I'd rather not.

[joshnumber21]

Sounds like an embarrassment thing. Sometimes you just have to let loose and really enjoy yourself...I know I do. LOL.

[truex2]

I agree with watching the facial expressions. It's as much a turn-on to me as moaning.

[alexdraw]

tell him to make some noise 4 u

[tyrantfuryre]

You're not doing anything wrong. It's more normal than not for guys to not make any noise.

[Asker]

Why would he not want to make noise of pleasure though? For me, it makes the sex so much more intense. I don't understand how he can possibly stay quiet? He makes me want to moan and all that! I would think that it would make him too! It just doesn't seem normal.