Would you still respect your girlfriend if she had a threesome with you?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I was browsing the site and I came along a question about a guy talking about things that turn off guys, and one of them he said was having girl on girl action.He said that it would make a guy want to have sex with you, but he would lose his respect for you and not want anything serious.I know this and that's why I've never done it. But I see so many women who let their bfs talk them into threesomes.even if they really don't want to they do it anyway. So my question is to you guys, is it true that if you were in a relationship and you got your girl to agree to a threesome with you, would you still respect for her in the end.Be truthful.

[Anonymous]

Had a threesome in college. My girlfriend at the time had a girlfriend, and she would join us from time to time. I felt a bit strange at first, coming from a traditional kind of family, never really thought of experimenting this way. But we made it work. All of us would go on dates together, we wanted the relationship to be an actual relationship and not just sex. I think that if we didn't have the relationship/friendship as well, then the physical aspects of the relationship would have dominated everything and we wouldn't have lasted. We broke up after about two years.

We are all still very good friends, but we just all moved in different directions. I think that if we didn't make such a point to be friends as well as lovers, it would have been easy to lose respect for one another. Much in the same way that if my current relationship was purely physical, I don't think that I would have a lot of respect for the person.

I hope that this helps.

[dtwguy]

I personally don't want to have a threesome. It is a fine fantasy and all but unless you have a good three way relationship outside the bedroom it will only devolve into jealousy and disrespect. I just want one good woman.

I would disrespect anyone that did something they are strongly opposed to. I think the loss of respect would come from that rather than from any particular act.

Even it a woman told me she felt she HAD to have sex with just me to prove her love or out of perceived expectation; I would lose all respect. Someone so weak minded to not have sex when they WANT to is likely to do a lot of harmful things in the future that they convince themselves they HAVE to do.

[l-hedoniste]

I would respect her, and thank her, and be very, very happy with her.

[Littletad]

Guys are very territorial when it comes to their woman. Even if the other person is a woman herself. We might think it's hot for moment or not even think too clearly when it does happen. But when the funs over, our guilty conscious kicks in and almost never see her the same.

Keep in mind that this is some guys, not all.