Boyfriend broke up with me cause I'm a virgin?

I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17.I'm a virgin and he isn't.Well,he asked me how far I've ever gone,and I told him making out.Well he looked at me with a stupid look.Then he broke up with me because he said he didn't want to be with someone inexperienced and it would take too long to teach me anything.Any advice or tips?
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  • And I bet now you feel inadequate, you feel that you need to comply, you might even be feeling more attractive to him now because of this.

    Take it from a guy, that is exactly the kind of thing I would do [or in my early years would do] just to get a girl to comply. If he really cared about you then he would at this point even want you more.

    He is basically telling you, I want you only for sex, and you're not good enough because you are a virgin.

    Unless all you are looking for is sex too, then forget him otherwise, he did you a great favour by breaking up with you. You should thank him. Let him go on and look for some other girls that deserves him, you don't deserve him because you deserve better than him.

    And btw, there is nothing to teach about sex, it just happens. Every new partner I've had, we always had to learn what excited each other.

    • I think you hit it on the dot. He only wants sex if that was his main concern he's not worth your time.

  • dont worry about it..hes a little boy he just proved that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • As much as this probably hurts right now, DONT WORRY ABOUT IT! Clearly this guy is immature and conceded. Losing your virginty is special, don't waste it on someone who doesn't respect you. And if it makes you feel better he probably isn't as experienced as he thinks and maybe that's why he didn't want to sleep with you. p.s. I know lots of guys who fantasize about getting with a virgin (including my own boyfriend lol). Cheer up and don't waste your time on losers!

  • Yes. Forget this shallow and stupid guy and be proud that you didn't jump into bed just for the heck of it.

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  • if a guy dumps you becase your inexperience then he is an ass. just forget his stupid ass because he's not worth it.

  • He is an idiot. Forget about him!

  • whoa what a jerk, be happy he broke up with u

  • well he's a douchebag for doing that and we all learn from our experiences

    and you should stay a virgin until you find a guy you trust and feel comfortable sharing that special moment with