Go for it. Vaginas are incredibly elastic and snap back to their natural size within hours/a day of sex. Learning about yourself and what gets you off is really important to your future sex life. If you don't know how to get yourself off, how will you be able to help someone else do so?
Sex won't be as painful the first time you have it, mostly because you'll already know what to expect and your hymen is already broken. My first time didn't hurt at all, and I had never used a vibrator or dildo beforehand. My suggestion would be to get a vibrator/dildo (shaped like a penis, but it vibrates) because it will be more versatile and because 80% of women need clitoral stimulation (rather than just penetration) to get off.
Explore and enjoy!
Would it be wrong for me to get one or not? Like I do want to explore myself and instead of trying to really see what sex is all about, instead of going to have a one night stand for it.
No, it's definitely not "wrong." It's totally natural and normal, regardless of what people may say to you on the contrary.
Do you think guys would not approve or whatever? Like I don't plan to use it every day and if I am finding the right person for sex, I would stop using the dildo so I would be tight. Do you think it really matters?
you shoudl because then you will know what you like and what to expect :) also, it doesint have to hurt and your hymen does not have to break, just go really slow and use a lot of lube. if you use a dildo this shoudint be a problem because there is no guy present to get impatient :P
if you use a dildo, I assume it wouldn't hurt when you had sex for the first time because you wouldn't be as tight.
Is it better not to use a dildo and just actually wait for sex?
Yes, but that's not what you were asking...
I'm a virgin and I don't masturbate, mostly because it doesn't work. but I think when I do have sex, it'll be special...painful, but special.
I think it's best you wait. You don't want to pop your cherry to a dildo do you? Try using your finger when masturbating, it's smaller and should still get you off.
My cherry was already popped thanks to the doctor visit lol. Will it be noticeable to a guy if I have been using a dildo or not?
A lot of girls can't masturbate with a finger because it's like trying to tickle yourself, it doesn't work. but that's only for some girls.
Lol I agree. I can't seem to please myself anymore like I use to, so it seems like the next step to be for me is to get a dildo and try to have better pleasure while I wait for the right man.
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