I was online today and I read a study that was very blunt but related to me so well it was almost frustrating and I wasn't sure what to say about it.
Apparently girls who lack male attention would eventually grow up to become lesbains.
Some sites say it's "lesbianism" which I think is bullshit.
Some other sites say that some girls just aren't born lesbains. They are born hetrosexual and all their negative experiences and rejections with boys lead them closer and closer to woman because they couldn't form regular hetrosexual relationships. Those girls aren't like the other hetrosexual girls that don't get punched with flowers or whistled at or whatever.
This scared me a little.
One. Today I realized I wear less and less make up, and every thing I wore was black and my jacket came from my dad. I looked like a tomboy. What if I'm going back to that stage, u know the emo tomboy phase almost all of us went though as a teen.
Second, I have been rejected by every boy I've ever liked, and I guys have never even payed attention to me(even when I dressed up cute like last week lol)
Third... I like girls...like a lot. I rarely talk about boys anymore. It's all about girls now. I've liked them since I was little but I thought everybody loved boobs and nude pics and fantasized over sexual intercorse with them. So I never really payed attention to it. Boys, too, but eh, like now, I don't form anything romantic with them. Neither do girls but my friend let me touch her boobs!
Im scared I'm falling to this category. Teen girl 16, doesn't associate with boys much or ever had any luck with them, so the "lesbianism" is taking over
Here's the thing. I like the idea of being with a man someday. But bruh I'm too shy to even look into a good looking guys eyes and when I do chat it up with one, I'm awkward as hell. Judging from my mom and dad's relationship I'm a little scared of them too. And judging from what I see from my sister's relationship, I'm a little scared to date a guy my age.
But in general I'm not so sure if my dream relationship with a guy is even possible.
It might not be. Plus, it's like boys don't care for me anyway lol
No I don't know why I can't attract anyone. I mean I'm pretty when I want to be, I have big boobs, I'm not fat. I don't know maybe it's because black girls also aren't all that... desirable.. apparently. My hair is long...and it's real... I don't talk slang..im actually pretty polite. I grew up in a big hhouse... Im not a jerk. I dont get it? Well anyway. This was on my mind and I thought I'd share it.
Yes I'm 16, if you don't like it, then that sucks for you. :| (I shouldn't even have to post that, but to you assholes, there u go
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Lol that is just ridiculous. Not having a good experience with men won't change you. If that were true 90 percent of the women that I know would be gay. Most of the women in college would be banging each others. It does not work that way. At times it might feel like you just want to give up on guys but few women do.
Also it would work the other way also.
Don't think so I was always of the opinion that tomboys were popular with the guys