Here's some reasons you can't get out of the Friendzone.
-The person is not attracted to you.
If someone puts you in the friendzone this usually means there is no attraction there, unfortunately attraction is vital for any healthy relationship, i'd say the number 1 reason people get friendzoned is because of lack of attraction and if there is no attraction then its very unlikely this will change.
-No one is obliged to like you.
That's right no one has to fancy you, if someone doesn't feel the right way about you shouldn't want them to either, why do you want to try convince someone you're good enough for them, if it doesn't happen naturally?, it makes more sense to just give up.
-If they do change there mind, they will change it again
If you do manage to change there mind it is extremely likely they will change there mind once again,
if someone originally didn't want you then suddenly changes there mind its usually because they're going through a rough patch, they were in a bad place (you helped them through it) or they just need someone there right now etc.., once they manage to sort themselves out, its likely you'll be back to square one again.
-You aren't right for them.
-Because you shouldn't have to convince someone to feel the right way about you.
You can't deny having to try get someone to like you sucks, why would anyone want to chase someone around like a little puppy dog trying to get themselves noticed and seen in a romantic way, if someone doesn't naturally feel the right way about you i'd say there is a reason for this, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, it just means you're not for them and this should be accepted.
-You weren't first choice.
I honestly believe even if the person does happen to change there mind, they will never be happy with you completely, they will start resenting you for not being what they truly want from someone, you aren't "the one" if you had to try and manipulate someone to like you, they will more than likely be day dreaming about other people and wishing they could be with them instead, who wants to be with someone who is always thinking about someone else?, in the end it just will not work.
Just because you're friendzoned, does NOT mean there is actually something wrong with you, not everyone is going to like you.
What do you think, do you believe you can make someone like you after no attraction?
Why or why not?
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