I know exactly one couple who had a love at first sight meeting where it worked out. They stayed together until she died of lung cancer a few years ago.
So out of all the βit was love at first sight!!!β meet cutes in the world, thatβs the only one that I know of where it worked.
Love isn't at first sight, lust is at first sight.
I don't know if I love a girl when I first see her. But I do know if I wanna go inside her. Love is something that only happens when you love what is really inside of them. Not sex, bad pun. I mean who their character is.
I don't think it does, I feel it happens once you get to know someone and you get over the initial lusting (well for me when I fall in love the lusting goes up a little bit 😋) because you know them and you love them for everything. My husband said he felt it when he first saw me, and that he'd had a vision of me before we met and it sounds so sweet and I love it, I just feel bad it wasn't the same at first sight for me. I think you can fall in love very quickly, that's happened to me where I was going to stop even talking to this guy but a few months later I realized I was hopelessly in love with him. Back to the first sight, there's people that catch your eye that your body instinctively is attracted to but I have never fallen in love just by looking at someone
Agreed... it is a false notion. There are many people that believe no genuine love can exist between woman and man , many men believe a woman is incapable of loving a man at all.
Thank you for your appreciation !! Sadly , this mindset is growing among men of all age groups , but you will likely agree , feminist & other misandrist propaganda has poisoned the minds of girls / women , hence so many treat males like dirt... or even less !!
Hehe, well I sometimes wish, that our lifes had a bit more cartoon/fairytale wonder to it, but unfortunately I am either too much of a bitter old cynical (not my own flattering remark, haha) or maybe just too solid grounded on the planet and with a terrible imagination ! :-)
Thanks for sharing ;-) And congratulations on making the editorial staff :-) certainly well deserved :-)
i agree with all your points, love at first sight is a completely shallow concept based on physical attraction only and it probably won´t work well in long term, altought someimes it really does.
Attraction at first site for sure. We approach people that we are attracted and comfortable with. Love comes as a result of many things that come together after a while. We can be e attracted to someone @ first site, which can develop into love, but it won't necessarily resolve into love later. Not all highschool sweet hearts last. Lust and love are different and come with responsibility.
I'd agree with your points, but I'd also add that a lot of people think they are experiencing love at first sight when they encounter someone who reminds them of a person they did love or fits the profile of their idealized love.
In the greek language the word love has 5 different meanings , It covers all aspects of life. Most people think of love as the physical attraction, which is covered by eross where we get erotic from. But love can be of a mother seeing her baby for the first time that is instant...
I think the phrase shouldn't be taken literally. True love at first sight only happens between a child that just born and its parents.
In the case of romantic relationships it's different however taking it to literal in that context its a mistake. More than love it's attraction, and not physical, I think its a special kind that's related to specific behaviors and a specific personality we find very appealing.
No I can happen I have met girls in clubs and knew that I would fall in love with them, later I did, it's not at first sight like your talking about but I think you should acknowledge some people are more intuitive then others. Some people can see how they will feel about a person in the future. Maybe what we need is a new definition.
Well duh.. I don't know anybody who really thinks they can fall in love with someone from just looking at them. You migt think it's love when it's really just attraction.
Love at first sight does not exist. It is just myth. I agree with you. Love grows by time. You get to know them you like them as they are. You like them more despite their crazy habits. Now that is love:)
''love at first sight'' ... is when you both look at each other and you are most likely both each others exact types... i mean it is all lust, not love. The reason why people will then say it is love a first sight is when you actually get on well and find out you are not just physically but mentally meant for each other as it were.
Ya there's definitely no such thing as LOVE at first sight. sometimes you meet someone and somehow you just feel some connection, 99% of it is just lust. There are times though where 1% of that eye contact feels like a genuine connection, and once you talk there truly is a click in personalities but that's VERY rare
I disagree, I think love at first sight can happen but it is not how it is made up in movies or books of course. It is something that could possibly happen in someones life unexpectedly. You just never know.
I totally agree!! You can't fall in love with a person's appearance, love is based on an emotional connection you share with another person, and their mind and soul. It has ALMOST nothing to do with their looks. Appearance CAN affect sexual attraction, but so can a powerful mental/emotional connection (or lack thereof).
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I totally agree, love at first sight doesn't exist for you and for me (yet) and for others, its non existence is limited there.
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The corrected term is Lust at First sight. I've only been in love once and that was after being around her for a long time.
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I know exactly one couple who had a love at first sight meeting where it worked out. They stayed together until she died of lung cancer a few years ago.
So out of all the βit was love at first sight!!!β meet cutes in the world, thatβs the only one that I know of where it worked.
Love isn't at first sight, lust is at first sight.
I don't know if I love a girl when I first see her. But I do know if I wanna go inside her. Love is something that only happens when you love what is really inside of them. Not sex, bad pun. I mean who their character is.
On the money
I don't think it does, I feel it happens once you get to know someone and you get over the initial lusting (well for me when I fall in love the lusting goes up a little bit 😋) because you know them and you love them for everything. My husband said he felt it when he first saw me, and that he'd had a vision of me before we met and it sounds so sweet and I love it, I just feel bad it wasn't the same at first sight for me. I think you can fall in love very quickly, that's happened to me where I was going to stop even talking to this guy but a few months later I realized I was hopelessly in love with him. Back to the first sight, there's people that catch your eye that your body instinctively is attracted to but I have never fallen in love just by looking at someone
Agreed... it is a false notion. There are many people that believe no genuine love can exist between woman and man , many men believe a woman is incapable of loving a man at all.
thats sad, i think men are amazing.
Thank you for your appreciation !! Sadly , this mindset is growing among men of all age groups , but you will likely agree , feminist & other misandrist propaganda has poisoned the minds of girls / women , hence so many treat males like dirt... or even less !!
Hehe, well I sometimes wish, that our lifes had a bit more cartoon/fairytale wonder to it, but unfortunately I am either too much of a bitter old cynical (not my own flattering remark, haha) or maybe just too solid grounded on the planet and with a terrible imagination ! :-)
Thanks for sharing ;-)
And congratulations on making the editorial staff :-) certainly well deserved :-)
i agree with all your points, love at first sight is a completely shallow concept based on physical attraction only and it probably won´t work well in long term, altought someimes it really does.
Yes, it can turn into love sure, but not before youβve spoken or know anything about them. π
Yes, that is it.
Attraction at first site for sure. We approach people that we are attracted and comfortable with. Love comes as a result of many things that come together after a while. We can be e attracted to someone @ first site, which can develop into love, but it won't necessarily resolve into love later. Not all highschool sweet hearts last. Lust and love are different and come with responsibility.
I'd agree with your points, but I'd also add that a lot of people think they are experiencing love at first sight when they encounter someone who reminds them of a person they did love or fits the profile of their idealized love.
In the greek language the word love has 5 different meanings , It covers all aspects of life. Most people think of love as the physical attraction, which is covered by eross where we get erotic from. But love can be of a mother seeing her baby for the first time that is instant...
I think the phrase shouldn't be taken literally. True love at first sight only happens between a child that just born and its parents.
In the case of romantic relationships it's different however taking it to literal in that context its a mistake. More than love it's attraction, and not physical, I think its a special kind that's related to specific behaviors and a specific personality we find very appealing.
No I can happen I have met girls in clubs and knew that I would fall in love with them, later I did, it's not at first sight like your talking about but I think you should acknowledge some people are more intuitive then others. Some people can see how they will feel about a person in the future. Maybe what we need is a new definition.
Well duh.. I don't know anybody who really thinks they can fall in love with someone from just looking at them. You migt think it's love when it's really just attraction.
Love at first sight does not exist. It is just myth. I agree with you.
Love grows by time. You get to know them you like them as they are. You like them more despite their crazy habits. Now that is love:)
''love at first sight''
... is when you both look at each other and you are most likely both each others exact types... i mean it is all lust, not love. The reason why people will then say it is love a first sight is when you actually get on well and find out you are not just physically but mentally meant for each other as it were.
Also you can tell by body language quite well as to what sort of a person people are... i could go on... but yh
Ya there's definitely no such thing as LOVE at first sight. sometimes you meet someone and somehow you just feel some connection, 99% of it is just lust. There are times though where 1% of that eye contact feels like a genuine connection, and once you talk there truly is a click in personalities but that's VERY rare
I disagree, I think love at first sight can happen but it is not how it is made up in movies or books of course. It is something that could possibly happen in someones life unexpectedly. You just never know.
About some time somebody admit this and said it! :-D I give you a big round of applause for this take!!
@Unit1 Agreed?
I do agree. I doubt true love even exists nowadays.
I totally agree!! You can't fall in love with a person's appearance, love is based on an emotional connection you share with another person, and their mind and soul. It has ALMOST nothing to do with their looks. Appearance CAN affect sexual attraction, but so can a powerful mental/emotional connection (or lack thereof).
I totally agree, love at first sight doesn't exist for you and for me (yet) and for others, its non existence is limited there.
I think itβs a fairytale concept.
I thought that was established already.
Refuted: You have kids, but your marriage is π© so will you break up or not? β
Our argument is invalid, but nice try!
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Does love at first sight exist for you? Did it ever happen? β
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