It's a great take. And I know there's more but I just want to say you do you, boys. It's ok to cry, it's ok to go ask for help, it's ok to have preferences, it's ok to lead a lifestyle you like and it's definitely ok to express your feelings.
@somewheresomeway maybe you should stop generalizing and throwing every girl into one bag. You don't know me so don't judge me. Just because you saw that, doesn't mean every single girl thinks the same
Well don’t judge me either. I wouldn’t be a “whinny bitch” if a girl politely rejected me on a dating app. But according to your first paragraph we are all just “twerps” or worse right?
@somewheresomeway when exactly did I judge you? You falsely judged me now for the second time. When did I say I think guys are twerps? You're creating a problem when there's isn't one. You just wanna argue with someone today or what?
Why do you care what the society says? Do what you want to do.
For number 1- File a police case. You will be believed instantly by the people in power (like cops and judge) because its rare for man to be raped. Let the idiot people laugh at you, ignore them.
Number 2- Hit them back. And its only shown in movies that the girl slaps and walks away. I have never in my life seen/heard a girl slap her boyfriend.
Number 3- Bullshit. The teacher will be jailed irrespective of age. Ignore the people who call you lucky and file a police case. Sex with minor is an offence no matter what gender!!
Number 4- That is why boys are generally more succesful than women with the same opportunities because our emotions don't affect our decisions.
Number 5- Who said they don't? Guys reject ugly girls all the time!!! The rejected girls are the ones who call you sexist out of frustration.
Women have life so much better and so much easier. The world coddled them, kisses their ass, puts them up on pedestals, gives them free protection and women also get the better end of many double standards THEN they have the nerve to ask for equality to men. Ladies, you’re already ahead of most men because most men are spineless little pussies who will cater to your every need
I agree with everything you said. Good take. I hope these things change tbh , it's unfair to only focus on certain problems and forget the others. The one that gets me is when men get raped and no one cares... honestly saddens me so much.
6... The automatic assumption that male = sex predator / pervert / pedo / rapist in waiting. Men do have , on average , far higher sex drives than women , any fool knows that , however the vast majority of men also possess matching self control. Some sexist experiences as a single parent have pissed me off. To be fair , anti male " media " and feminist / #MeToo propaganda have played a major role in this social conditioning.
Whow there is a difference in admitting struggle on both sides and dismissing one struggle. There are some that are anti male and those people are dumb. And there also anti female those are dumb too. But that doesn't mean we had a societal issue of sexual rape and harassment in the western world. If you look at movies from the 90 that show how buys should try and date. thats horrible if you have that as a acceptible model. Make girls drunk or try and trick them into sleeping with you. That was a normal "funny" thing that the media showed. Are you saying that is normal or it didn't happen?
I think he's more referring to the scenario of a female teacher commuting statutory rape with a male student and getting a slap on the wrist because "He was lucky."
@ThatPersonOverThere I think my sense of humour has went over your head.
Also, not gonna lie, when you see one of these stories of a 15 year old boy who was banging hot 26 year old teacher. 90% of guys say "where were these teachers when I was in school". Plus anyone with half a brain knows that student teacher relationships like these are pretty common, usually a girl and a male teacher. Difference being girls tend to keep their mouths shut whereas guys brag. Reasons why the stories that come to light are a male student and female teacher.
Double standards everyone knows but few are willing to admit. I could add more to this, like male suicide rates and homelessness. But those are pretty well known too.
Excellent. And there are many more to add. I suggest everyone to watch a documentary called "The Red Pill". You will truly see what a disasterous society we (men) live in.
This is a true MyTake. Women and men need to come together to fight sexism on both sides, we can both be victims of sexism, so let's come together and help each other :)
Some truth to this; a lot of unnecessary nonsense too. The rape stuff is irrelevant and was included by you in order to get attention; number 5 is the best point you made. So I'd give you a.300 batting average or so.
@JohnFrost It's irrelevant because it's overplaying something that is incredibly rare in an attempt to say like "BOTH SIDES DEAL WITH XYZ SO DON'T EVEN MENTION IT" except that's basically a false equivalency since it's a simple fact that, no, males do not deal with the situation in even close to the same numbers. Of course it happens, and their cases matter, but not in the sense that the sexes deal with it equally. No, they don't.
I agree with everything except the last part. Undesirable men are the ones who complain about being rejected by hot girls and then call all women shallow and picky.
Huh? Well my main point is that men with high standards/physical requirements shouldn't shame women for having them and that it's more common than the other way around, but okay lol
Men are constantly shamed by women for not wanting to date someone because of their looks, I guess you don’t notice it because your a woman but I’ve been yelled at by my female friends for rejecting a girl just because I wasn’t attracted to her I get that woman probably face it too but I wouldn’t know based of the fact I’m not a woman
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It's a great take. And I know there's more but I just want to say you do you, boys.
It's ok to cry, it's ok to go ask for help, it's ok to have preferences, it's ok to lead a lifestyle you like and it's definitely ok to express your feelings.
Thank you for understanding
You say “it’s okay for guys to cry” yeah any guy, except the one you are dating.
@somewheresomeway what kind of nonsence is that. don't comment next time
I’ve seen lots of women “say” they don’t mind sensitive men. They like them, but they are not attracted to them.
Being a sensitive guy nobody is as painfully aware of this more than myself.
@somewheresomeway maybe you should stop generalizing and throwing every girl into one bag. You don't know me so don't judge me. Just because you saw that, doesn't mean every single girl thinks the same
Well don’t judge me either. I wouldn’t be a “whinny bitch” if a girl politely rejected me on a dating app. But according to your first paragraph we are all just “twerps” or worse right?
@somewheresomeway when exactly did I judge you? You falsely judged me now for the second time. When did I say I think guys are twerps? You're creating a problem when there's isn't one. You just wanna argue with someone today or what?
Actually my apologies. I was responding to the wrong post lol. Happens when I’m on my mobile sometimes.
I was arguing with a girl who thinks it’s completely fine to just ghost guys for no other reason but she just lost interest in them.
Maybe I'm sorry
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@Wowgirl10q Sorry for what
Why do you care what the society says? Do what you want to do.
For number 1-
File a police case. You will be believed instantly by the people in power (like cops and judge) because its rare for man to be raped.
Let the idiot people laugh at you, ignore them.
Number 2-
Hit them back. And its only shown in movies that the girl slaps and walks away. I have never in my life seen/heard a girl slap her boyfriend.
Number 3-
Bullshit. The teacher will be jailed irrespective of age. Ignore the people who call you lucky and file a police case.
Sex with minor is an offence no matter what gender!!
Number 4-
That is why boys are generally more succesful than women with the same opportunities because our emotions don't affect our decisions.
Number 5-
Who said they don't?
Guys reject ugly girls all the time!!!
The rejected girls are the ones who call you sexist out of frustration.
I agree with all your opinions, you have some extremely valid points.
Thank you, yespleasedaddy lmao. your name kills me
lmao glad to make someone laugh!
wink ;)
Women have life so much better and so much easier. The world coddled them, kisses their ass, puts them up on pedestals, gives them free protection and women also get the better end of many double standards THEN they have the nerve to ask for equality to men. Ladies, you’re already ahead of most men because most men are spineless little pussies who will cater to your every need
This isn't actually true, at least in my experience.
it depends but women will never be satisfied
I agree that some women are like this, but not all ;/
@yespleasedaddy yeah
I agree with everything you said. Good take. I hope these things change tbh , it's unfair to only focus on certain problems and forget the others. The one that gets me is when men get raped and no one cares... honestly saddens me so much.
6... The automatic assumption that male = sex predator / pervert / pedo / rapist in waiting. Men do have , on average , far higher sex drives than women , any fool knows that , however the vast majority of men also possess matching self control. Some sexist experiences as a single parent have pissed me off. To be fair , anti male " media " and feminist / #MeToo propaganda have played a major role in this social conditioning.
Whow there is a difference in admitting struggle on both sides and dismissing one struggle. There are some that are anti male and those people are dumb. And there also anti female those are dumb too. But that doesn't mean we had a societal issue of sexual rape and harassment in the western world. If you look at movies from the 90 that show how buys should try and date. thats horrible if you have that as a acceptible model. Make girls drunk or try and trick them into sleeping with you. That was a normal "funny" thing that the media showed. Are you saying that is normal or it didn't happen?
So if a guy rapes me I'm lucky? I'm confused...
Also met plenty of girls that assumed I was gay because I rejected them lol. I'm not gay, you're just not attractive to me...
I think he's more referring to the scenario of a female teacher commuting statutory rape with a male student and getting a slap on the wrist because "He was lucky."
@ThatPersonOverThere I think my sense of humour has went over your head.
Also, not gonna lie, when you see one of these stories of a 15 year old boy who was banging hot 26 year old teacher. 90% of guys say "where were these teachers when I was in school". Plus anyone with half a brain knows that student teacher relationships like these are pretty common, usually a girl and a male teacher. Difference being girls tend to keep their mouths shut whereas guys brag. Reasons why the stories that come to light are a male student and female teacher.
That part of the guys bragging about it is true
Double standards everyone knows but few are willing to admit. I could add more to this, like male suicide rates and homelessness. But those are pretty well known too.
Excellent. And there are many more to add.
I suggest everyone to watch a documentary called "The Red Pill". You will truly see what a disasterous society we (men) live in.
Double Standards in any form or situation are bull shit.
I commend you on this mytake
Why did you only write down five? I can think of an additional 20 right at the top of my head.
This is a true MyTake. Women and men need to come together to fight sexism on both sides, we can both be victims of sexism, so let's come together and help each other :)
I disagree with 4. I think if my sog died, people that I know would be sad about regardless of gender. The other points ring through though.
*dog
I wouldn't think a man was weak if he cried about his animal.
"But, if a girl’s horse just died, then there will be 30+ guys standing in line waiting to cheer her up."
Of course! They're not being cockblocked by the horse anymore!
Some truth to this; a lot of unnecessary nonsense too. The rape stuff is irrelevant and was included by you in order to get attention; number 5 is the best point you made. So I'd give you a.300 batting average or so.
The 5th isn't as bad as the rest. why would the rape thing be irrelevant? A double standard effects both sides of the standard
@JohnFrost It's irrelevant because it's overplaying something that is incredibly rare in an attempt to say like "BOTH SIDES DEAL WITH XYZ SO DON'T EVEN MENTION IT" except that's basically a false equivalency since it's a simple fact that, no, males do not deal with the situation in even close to the same numbers. Of course it happens, and their cases matter, but not in the sense that the sexes deal with it equally. No, they don't.
Well if you include prison rape in those numbers they do become about the same amount
Knew there would be a few women who'd trot the same old lies out... but good for the honest ones.
Seems like the main disadvantage of being a guy is you live like 6 years less on average!
Explain
en.wikipedia.org/.../List_of_countries_by_life_expectancy
I agree with everything except the last part. Undesirable men are the ones who complain about being rejected by hot girls and then call all women shallow and picky.
She labels them undesirable because they have standards, lol wow
Huh? Well my main point is that men with high standards/physical requirements shouldn't shame women for having them and that it's more common than the other way around, but okay lol
Men are constantly shamed by women for not wanting to date someone because of their looks, I guess you don’t notice it because your a woman but I’ve been yelled at by my female friends for rejecting a girl just because I wasn’t attracted to her I get that woman probably face it too but I wouldn’t know based of the fact I’m not a woman
Yep. Those are unfortunately real world issues. I am looking forward to banish these problems myself. Thumbs up for you! Great take!