First of, I want to start this by saying I believe that men and women are not equal, they're equal only in their common membership of the same species, humankind.
To maintain that they are the same in aptitude, skill or behavior is to build a society based on a biological and scientific lie.
We each serve two completely different purposes that when done properly they create harmony in our households and in our lives.
We don't need to be like men and we don’t need to be masculine to be powerful. My femininity is my strength.
I don’t want to identify with a cause that has built its foundation on the idea that as a woman, I am a victim. When you live in victimhood everyone (sooner or later) becomes the enemy.
This is the 21st century. Equality exists in this country, and women have taken advantage of it. I am grateful for the rights that historical feminism has granted me, but it’s run its course.
But that’s exactly why I want to talk about it. I am not a feminist, and here’s why.
1. Females are subtly convinced that they need to “change” and adopt male characteristics to be considered “equal” - if there ever was an oppressive statement towards women, it’s that!
Why be a man when you can be a woman?
Embrace being a woman & embrace your femininity.
Many of today's women chose to behave like the problematic men they despise, because feminism has empowered them to act out the worst of male behaviors as a mean to get revenge for the perceived wrongs men have caused them.
No wonder so many men are turned off by today's women.
Feminists don't value the feminine, they view it as an impediment and a weakness. That's why they desperately try to behave like men.
The worst part is that they behave like men yet expect to receive the privileges of being a lady.
2. Feminists blame "toxic masculinity" to explain why so many men kill themselves. They blame the victims instead of blaming themselves for constantly belittling, judging and putting down men. The never consider their poor behaviors and attitudes toward men to be part of the problem.
Today's feminists equate masculinity and male strength with domination & abuse, when, really, the opposite is true. Strong, confident men don't harass and assault women. Emasculated, weak ones do. We need more male heroes, not fewer. We need men to be more confident in their masculinity, not ashamed of it. A society full of wusses will do nothing to help in fact, it will exacerbate it.
A girl needs femininity to become a woman.
A boy needs masculinity to become a man.
Masculinity is timeless it doesn't need to be reinvented it just needs to be remembered and reclaimed.
Male leadership doesn't automatically equal female oppression. True leadership from the masculine honors and respects women.
Healthy, healed and whole men are not a threat to women. Weak, damaged and confused men are.
The restoration of masculinity in men is the restoration of femininity in women. It's a win win.
And women who deny their womanhood in an attempt to obtain equality with men end up losing both.
Toxic masculinity isn't the problem the lack of masculinity is.
3. Feminism destroys the family.
Feminist is the idea that women are free when they serve their employers but slaves when they serve their husband and children.
Here are some quotes from some feminist leaders.
These are just a few but I think it should tell you enough.
Feminism has destroyed the family. It has undermined men's authority over their children and is producing a fatherless society where single-parent families, usually dominated by women, are becoming the norm. ... And most of this behaviour can be attributed to a breakdown in the roles between men and women in society.
The way feminism values financial gains over valuing women's desire to be mothers and stay at home moms contradicts their supports of women.
4. Women empowerment
Women are constantly saying we are not objects, you say you aren't an object yet you have a price tag for your pornographic photos and videos,
Then masking obesity as "body positivity ".
Body positivity is about being happy and confident in your body despite any difects, for example, stretch marks/scars etc it's not promoting obesity or sexualing and selling your body to those who don't deserve it. You can love your body and still want to improve how it looks. I find it rather disgusting that women are promoting this stuff.
Why are there 14/15/16 years old online that want to open an only fans or want a sugar daddy, or wanna grow up and be strippers. Why is that even a thought in their head ? Why is that a desire that they have ? Why are women out here encouraging children to put their young and vulnerable bodies out there and pushing them towards dangers and telling them that it's safe and it's empowerment? Why are women telling these same kids that anyone who tells them that are wrong and anyone who tries to tell them to stop is misogynistic or a pedophile ? If you encourage this type of behaviors in children, I'm going to look at you sideways.
One thing feminism has done for women, is make it unacceptable to apply a standard of behavior for women. You can't tell a woman to be nice, of behave properly. Like spoiled children, feminists will throw tantrums if they are told to act in the same way they say men should act.
5. The "I'm an independent woman who don't need no man" women.
Independent women and feminism is nothing but poison poisoning the brains of women. It is an undeniable fact that men should provide every needs of a women and women to provide but to keep the family and home warm.
Women were made for men and men were made for women.
It's time to heal and restore the balance. Good men lead. Feminine women will follow.
No one wants to fully depend on anyone for anything. But I believe one of the reasons why relationships fail nowadays is because there's no stability.
Traditions big or small create anchors of stability, especially in rough seas.
It's okay to be dependent on your husband you don't have to do it all.
Feminism has succeeded in masculinizing women and feminizing men, but feminist can't stop the patriarchy no matter how hard they try, because it is the natural order for us. Tradition is a guide not a jailer.
A woman who embraces her femininity births beauty into the world. Masculine men will always love, appreciate, respect and adore feminine women.
So women do not fall for the lies and deception that tell you that you need to be liberated from the natural dignity of your sex.
Career, status, power achievement and prestige will never deliver true happiness the way motherhood will.
Men might respect you for your achievements and success but trust me they don't care. The only ones who care about those things are men who want to be taken care of.
Masculine men build the world.
Feminine women make it beautiful
6. The hate towards men.
When men don't want to deal with women, they have toxic masculinity. When women don't want to deal with men, they are liberated and independent women. 🤔
The hypocrisy of feminists is seen when they empower women to be hateful of men while claiming men's hatred toward women is unacceptable.
All the woman who say they hate men or all the man who say they hate women,
Express their poor judgement, with a lot of emotional trauma and low self-esteem.
Pretending men will be liberated by rejecting the "patriarchy" is one of the most manipulative idea to come out of modern feminism. They aren't saying this for the welfare of men, but to control and force men into a preapproved feminist version of masculinity that serves women.
If feminists care about men, why do they tell them to shut up and let women speak, to take less space, to be less manly, to be more feminine and that their voice don't matter anyway because it's time to lift up women and men's role is to support women and be good little allies?
To feminists, women who support men are gender traitors and "pick me" but men who support women are allies.
Basically, the group who claim to be about gender equality treat people differently according to their gender and overvalues women by making men allies instead of equals.
This is the hatred of men non feminists often point to. Men are not appreciated in feminism. They are treated as second class citizens, uneducated, amoral people who must work at becoming equal to the divine women. Resistance to this change is proof of toxic masculinity.
And of course, feminists reject that they hate men because they see their actions as beneficial to everyone. To them, they have nothing but good intentions. And they are so convinced of the righteousness of their position that they refuse to see how toxic their ideology can be.
The main reason people think feminists hate men is because they say they do. They don't hide it in shame, they are proud of it. And their hate is shared by hundreds of other feminists.
Feminist ideologies are imbued with misandry.
You can tell it's bullshit when feminists say "we don't hate men, we hate this patriarchal society" because their solution to dismantle the patriarchy is always to attack men and masculinity. You can't fight a patriarchy built by men without attacking men.
Feminism is directly responsible for the normalization and spread of misandry in our society. Anyone who truly believes in equality should be outraged by this and understand that rejecting feminism is the way to move forward and progress.
Feminism is the new "patriarchy". They seek political and societal control, and an imposition of their ideology into the mainstream narrative. Anyone who disagree will be canceled and shamed into silence.
And they still don't understand why people oppose feminism. 🙄
7. "All men are thrash"
The "do whatever I want how I want to" and "all men are thrash attitude" is not going to allow you to find a good man. Perceive man as thrash and toxic and you'll attract a toxic man who's "thrash"
8. Pick me
Calling a woman a pick me for being against feminism is another way of saying women are too dumb to think for themselves and that, if they aren't feminists, it's because men have brainwashed them.
No, it's not because of men I'm an anti feminist, it's because of how toxic feminists can be and how flawed feminism is.
Oh and Ladies,
Men don’t open the door for you because they believe you are helpless.
Men open the door for you out of respect.
❤
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