I beginning to think that I'm that girl that guys typically view as one of the guys. When I was in middle school and high school I knew that was the case because I had more guy friends that girls. But, now that I'm an adult I have tried to not really have male friend per say, I would consider them associates. In addition, I am at the point in my life I rather not be in a relationship just focus on my career. But, I have a few male associates that constantly refer themselves as "my best friend". What the does that mean. Am I the ideal qirl that can be considered as one of the guy's?