Why is it difficult to have a guy best friend?

I've always wanted one and everytime I get close to a guy he either pulls away or gets a girlfriend and all of my male childhood friends are doing their own thing now. my female friends stay longer even if they have a boyfriend only a small amount of them leave because of that. I also feel like I'll get judged by guys when talking to them for the first time because they may think im hitting on them event though im not flirting.
Why is it difficult to have a guy best friend?
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