When people ask me when Im gonna start dating again I tell them not right now. The truth is Im fine with being single at the moment. Do I want to be single forever? No. I'll love to get married and have kids one day. Even with my friends, like none of them are in relationships... they're just having sex with guys & hoping a relationship will form. I suspect they find it weird that Im just not interested in dating right now. I much rather be single than be with guys who treat me with zero respect much like the guys they're sleepig with. Im not trying to downplay them either. The issue isn't guys aren't asking me out. In fact, I have turn down four guys for a date in a few months. Im not like those preachy girls saying, "I dont need a man! I dont need a man!" Im just saying, like honestly,, Im single right now but Im totally cool with it. So do people actually believe when someone say they're ok with being single?