If he doesn't realize what he's done then he is not a good friend and u should just give him the cold shoulder
Yeah, he's actually been giving me the cold shoulder lately
Do the same thing then
He was my best friend, I'm so hurt
I know and if he's really still ur bestfriend he'll come back to u
Hopefully.. thanks for the advice
You're welcome and lol still the same girl ur messaging 😂
ohmygosh I'm laughing so hard now xD
Thanks, you made me feel better xD
It was so horrible...
So what happened?
He sabotaged something I wanted to do.. he's been acting different and this is insane
Oh, I'm sorry. Do you know why?
I don't know why.. I think it had to do with his dad though
So what exactly was it he sabotaged? A party?
I take it you're not going to tell me what that opportunity was?
Okay, a job that his father was to hire you for?
Yup, that was it
And he ruined your reputation? Are you certain there's no way to clear up the issue?
His dad has never liked me, and he started being nice to me but now he hates me more because of this. I didn't even do anything!
Well, why don't you attempt to clear the air and fix the rumor? It's recent enough for you to have that leverage and even if his father doesn't like you he'll listen to reason. He isn't a child.
His dad is very weird and judging and childish.. I can't clear up the situation
Well, it isn't the end of the world. Even if he failed you here.
I'm hurt about this so bad though
Yes, of course, and I would be too if I was shifted away from my goals but being angry only gets you so far. It's okay to be upset. It's not okay to get stuck on it. If he cannot behave in a manner that is at least supportive you may have to keep him out of matters like this.
Yeah, you're right.. thanks so much for the help :)
What? I didn't do anything.
You made me see that I need to forget anger.. you helped a lot
Oh. Well, cool.
Haha well thanks
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I would march up to him, Yell at him for his betrayal, tell him to rot in hell, and then tell him he is dead to you. After that have nothing to do with him and find friends who don't pull that type of crap.
Betrayed you in what way?
I wanted something so bad and he sabotaged my chances of it.. he's been changing and this is the biggest bomb he's thrown at me...
So his sabotaged you not really betrayed you. if you can't look over what his done, cut him loose. If you can forgive and forget, give him a chance
He's also betrayed me, like dissing me, taking my friends... I can't cut him loose, yet I want to..
Is that what your gut is telling you to do?
My heart is saying to stay, it'll get better. My gut says leave the friendship.
Have you know n this guy friend for long? I would normally go with my gut feeling
I've known him for 9 years
Making you 5 when you knew him? If it's time to move on it's time to move on I guess
Yeah, but we didn't become good friends until last year.. and I think you're right
Sounds like you made the decision to move on
Yeah, I guess so
Thanks for the help @misscoffeehead
It's ok :) I'm glad I could help
So how he betray you exactly?
Sabotaged my chances of going to a camp, it was a big deal...
Oh.. I would like to sing you a song my lady. *bows while holding a guitar*
Lol ok go ahead, my friend *sits expectantly*
Lets gather around the campfireAnd sing our campfire songOur C-A-M-P-F-I-R-E S-O-N-G songAnd if you don't think that we can sing it faster then you're wrongBut it'll help if you just sing alongPatrick:Bom Bom Bom...SpongeBob (sings very fast):C-A-M-P-F-I-R-E S-O-N-G songC-A-M-P-F-I-R-E S-O-N-G songAnd if you dont think that we can sing it faster then you're wrongBut it'll help if you just sing alongC-A-M-P-F-I-R-E S-O-N-G song... Patrick!Patrick:Song! C-A-M-P-F-I-R-E...SpongeBob:Squidward! (silence) Good!It'll helpIt'll helpIf you just sing along!(smashes guitar)OH YEAHH!!
Ahahahahahahaha ohmygosh that was awesome!!!
Brava! Bravisima!! XD
XD I love that song
That made me feel better xD awesome job!
omg I love this. That was beautiful.
I agree @Jessica_18
Thank you, thank you *bows*
by the way I believe he was using you all this time, don't worry though there's other people in the world you can hang with then that guy. If he keeps doing that to you all day then be nice to him no matter what. He needs it the most.
*fancy accent* You would be such a great person to perform with, I would be honored if we were to one day perform with me, your mighty musicalness
True.. thank you so much @Fubble2001, you have great advice
*manly accent* (low voice guy) Even though when I sing it sounds very manly ;) I would love to my lady but…I got other things to do then be a musician. I am giving up on it and be with my love of my life.
My pillow pet, the little lion
no jk I shall sing all day long, making everyone deaf because of my very "lovely" singing
And I will not be in the musical business either.. for I shall be with the love of my life.. the refrigerator CX
how... in what way
Taking my friends, dissing me, now he sabotaged something I wanted very badly
which is what... a guy?
What do you mean?
I'm confused since you are not direct
I would say to move on
I agree, thanks :)
damn.. tough sit.. good luck
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