Yes and no. Some girls think EVERY guy that talks to them is trying to make a move on them and that saying a girl looks cute is superficial balh blah blah (you know the 4th Reich stuff... FemiNazis). But overall, they are really east to talk to and have noticed most of them genuinely care about you, even if you're just a friend. Again, a small minority do not come off as easy to talk to, but the rest are all great.
yea I agree some girls do think that way..
Have an opinion?
Well, some girls are harder than othersSome girls always look grumpy, i hate that!some girls look stuck up, oh heck no!When a girl looks smiley, HELLO!
haha your funny
yeah also the prettier the girl the harder it is to talk to her, because you are afraid to mess up... first impressions are big, and dictate everything she thinks about you for the first few dates/interaction you have...
I can't speak for all girls but I can tell someone is nervous try to relax his fears a bit
yeah, i usually take a deep breath lol!it actually helps
Back in high school, I would have said "no way".In college and beyond... I find girls overall fairly easy to talk to. Because I learned that most are receptive, as long as the guy talks to them in a non-sleazy, non-demeaning, respectable way. :)
exactly this right here
Everyone is easy to talk to, but if we're talking aboutstrangers, then girls typically have more interesting topicswhereas guys will have predictable, and boring topics.
so what would make a girl not easy to talk to?
Mm I guess short responses, and lack of enthusiasmfrom her side, making interaction boring and awkward.
After you found all of the keys to the doors, found out your way through the labyrinth, got out from the quicksand, made it through the creepers and defeated the monster boss yes it's super easy to approach them.
haha it was a tough battle
Oh the labyrinth isn't that hard to walk through. I go through it everyday to get to school.
@Rcjh1987 it's easier to approach girls with that mindset, gives you courage 4.bp.blogspot.com/.../Fck+yeah.png
I really like this
We are as easy for guys to talk to us as it is for girls to talk to guys!I don't find it too difficult to talk to guys, my BFF since five has been a guy, I have two brothers and a Dad, all guys. I talk to them. Talk to other guys too, not a big deal!
-I am shy.-I have Resting BitchFace Syndrome.-I am introverted.-I am judgmental.-I am mean.-I blush like crazy and have a ridiculously hard time speaking to new people.-I don't really like small talk.-I'm very antisocial and avoid people, particularly eye contact.-I have a fear of crowds and get social anxiety easily.-I dress like a bum.-I cuss like crazy.-I'm a total tomboy.-My voice is very deep and monotone (unappealing for a chick)You'd think everyone would avoid me but NOPE! For some reason people say I'm easy to talk to. I don't get it? LolI'm a good listener though. But I need someone to direct the conversation or else it'd be nothing but awkward silences and staring.
so would you suggest anything yo help a guy talk to us?
Yes. Avoid me!
is it mainly where you work that you get approach most often?
@Toad-1 Not just there. EVERYWHERE! I'm a people magnet! Random guys and girls even on the street will try and talk to me. Not necessarily to fuck me, but even just small chats. It's so fucking weird! LolMy friends even say "Trais pegue" which in Spanish means "You attract" I guess? It roughly translates to that.
hmmm maybe your 'bitchface' really just looks friendly to other people haha.
@Toad-1 no lol cuz most people say I look mean. And they ask "Are you mad? What's wrong?" Unless I grew out of that face? Haha. I don't know. Either way, I have that long list of things that really make me wonder why the hell do people like approaching me.
Strange, I've never heard of "shy tomboy" :-P
@zorax well here I am lol
@BuchitaBuchys I see, lol, but it's kinda weird, being shy is quite the opposite of the definition of tomboy :P
@zorax you have a limited experience of tomboys then lol or maybe I'm just weird. More likely the latter.
LOL, probably the latter, I know lots of tomboys, but let's the several definitions of tomboy:1. A girl who behaves in a way that is perceived to be stereotypically boyish or masculine.2. A girl who acts or dresses in a boyish way, liking rough outdoor activities.3. An energetic, sometimes boisterous girl whose behavior and pursuits, especially in games and sports, are considered more typical of boys than of girls.4. Girl who would rather be playing football in the rain than out shopping and boy hunting. Hangs out with boys. Does not care about what other people think of her, nor does she judge others for the way they are. Very sporty, and does not follow the latest fashion trends.5. A girl who enjoys things that people think are more suited to boys.As you can see, there are no "shy tomboys" in any definition ;)
@zorax well I fit all those definitions except sporty, boisterous, energetic.Plus. 1, 2, 5, don't really say "not shy" or anything that would make it seem like we can't be shy.
@BuchitaBuchys Too bad, because sporty, boisterous and energetic are the key words for more than 90% of tomboys ;)"1, 2, 5, don't really say not shy" - Really? 1. "perceived to be stereotypically boyish or masculine" - Boyish/masculine behaviour is not stereotypically shy...2. "liking rough outdoor activities" - Not very typical for a shy person.5. "enjoys things that people think are more suited to boys" - Most people think that shy attitude is not suited to boys. Anyway, I'm also quite shy, that's why I love tomboyish girls, they are easier to talk to, because they always take the initiative ;)
@zorax lots of boys are shy though. I'm a geeky tomboy. Not the sporty tomboy. And as I said, I'm not a sporty person, so those don't apply to me anyways.
I guess you are more geeky rather than tomboyish :P
No way. They are very shallow and unapproachable. They only want to talk to you if you clear their height and face requirements
so are some guys on the shallow part. . of course not all guys are.
Well it is not easy for me to talk to most girls because many treat me like shit before I even try to. :((
maybe try some of the other guys or girls suggestions.
I have tried some of those other ideas but they don't work before. Like I do not speak to girls at bars well I never go to bars anyway.
I meant the tomboy girl
Of course. Understandably they will be stand offish if you are trying to sleaze in on them. So tragic. Everyone is approachable when they aren't feeling threatened
PS. Megan you have been a dream chat. Super easy and I love how you aren't afraid to be direct.
this is exactly true! !! aww thank you your sweet
1. Basically I think most of the girls are approachable2. However, apart from the way nature has made us some of them making it a little difficult to approach them is a given thing. This also makes the man work harder to get to her while she feels wanted and important that he's going through the rigors to speak to her3. Another angle is the natural instinct and/or by experience the 'unapproachable' part is to keep creeps away4. But vote goes to 'yes girls are approachable'
so what would you be your tips for guys who find it difficult?
not all of us are unapproachable but yes I agree with last part.
2nd comment was for someone else
Now I don't know which is the 2nd comment but I assume that it's 'not all of us...' At a point of time very early in life (preteen) I was one of those who could not approach any girl. The simple way of changing it is to rack up knowledge which in turn will make one more confident, think with the head and not heart, don't bother about 'rejection' / outcome etc - just go ahead and do it cause you never know how it will turn out :) not everyone wins but not everyone loses either ;-)
Girls find it hard to talk to me. :/Actually, if you are talking to them with clear intentions (not in the pursuit of getting laid) then there will be no difficulty. They are also human beings. There will be zero per cent difficulty. The guys who find it hard are the ones who are interested in you either romantically or sexually. While some guys are skillful to hide their intentions and hysteria.
very true I'm sure
Nope, not at all unless she is a tomboy or gamer ETC ya know a girl who's interested in something other than reality tv and "fashion/shopping" ^^.If I'm not flirting with them I don't even want to waste my time talking to them since they bore the living shit out of me IRL LOL. I CAN though just like with any other boy/girl when needed
lol I'm not a tomboy or gamer I do like shopping but ya talk to me
You watch sports, you can teach my young a thing about life (#^ ^#), you don't complain about useless stuff that no one cares about, Overall You're not boring OR looking for the MAN to lead the convo it seems ^^ When I'm talking to about 80% of girls, I simply expect them to sit there, look cute and usually laugh LOL ^^
speaking of which KU won by 10 Royals won Aaaannnddd Thunder Won yea it's a great day! !!
That moment when all take home all of the trophies ^^I need to get back in touch/catch on sports ><
we still have 1 game it's going to be TOUGH!!! Oklahoma or Iowa State both in which were contenders for Big 12 champion. but Iowa State beat Oklahoma the weekend we beat West Virginia so we got big 12. But both teams we won game at our house but there's we lost. although Oklahoma is fresh loss..
Oklahoma-ISU is a close game
Man what time is the next game?Home field advantage ain't no joke I see...
not in Allen Field house it's no joke. they're at sprint center for big 12 tournament
65-66 9 seconds left
This stadium looks so nice... Let me go see if I can catch this game while it's on OR at least follow it on espn. com
y'all at home i see ^^
LOL well I'm not going to watch it then ^6
5 pm, tonmorow and last time we played we beat them by 13 but that's payback lol
Kk imma watch that and https://vocaroo.com/i/s1nW52uxSWRv
that'll be me tommorow
Iowa State vs Kansas
I remember sneaking into the 06 world series in the 6th-7th inning ^^ #randomthought I love live games/free tickets etc
live games are awesome I have been to 2 royals games, a cheifs game and a KU basketball game None of them compared to KU basketball game the atmosphere the pride the game!!! not a bad seat in that place
I went to a blues hockey game right.. my MF eardrums almost exploded NEVER again ><I always wanted to goto college game because most of them (fans) are young/explosive
I've been to a hockey game too still don't compare.
Oh I bet it doesn't and it shouldn't LOL
hey did you guys have 2 cops killed over there yesterday or day before?
Yeah or 2 of them shot I don't know my bro told me about it though
I thought it was 2 kansas city had one earlier this month I saw in Facebook. . never was media though poor guy was only getting something to drink after his shift at 711
99% of the time... NO! lol your so stubborn and judgmental, i mean not all of you are but the majority... omg.. stay away from me lol, too much drama to care.
I find very hard personally. I am very hostile and quite. I can't be same with women the way i am with my friends. Some are very talented in this department. I have some friends who meet girls first day and end up having sex other day. Very talented men.
I actually find guys more approachable than girls if I don't know them. If I know them already, girls are easier to talk to for me.I think I am pretty approachable but I don't really know to be honest.
I understand completely
Some girls are easy to talk to. But of course some girls give off a vibe that tells the world they don't want to talk to you. And some girls are sort of in the middle. The first group (the friendly, approachable group) is much more enjoyable.
so what advice would you give to the guys who find it difficult to talk to girls
For the guys who have trouble talking to girls I would advise then to try talking with the friendly, approachable girls. Now, they're not gonna be wearing a sign that says "Friendly, Approachable Girl." But you can pick up little clues from their behavior and body language. Same with the one's who give off the "Don't Talk to Me" vibe. And when you do have some success talking to a friendly, approachable girl, always remember to offer her a vulva flower as gift.
awww that's what I've always wanted
A flower like this (or even prettier):www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1366880-who-thinks-that-this-is-a-beautiful-flower-pic
you know my favorite are roses
A vulva rose for @Asker: s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...9ad0562ed3.jpg
Yep white girls are... always after a good adventure, ohh my snow bunnies.
snow bunnies? your stealing @mistninja314 words now lol
LMAO My name is resonating across all of GAG now itseems -_- ^^ (#^ ^#) (-_^#) 1 mentiona day keeps the Mistnigga away i1127.photobucket.com/.../...om_MjMyNDIyMzUwOA.jpg
I had never heard of this chap, but I am sure he has competition now lol @mistaninja314
haha look out
I would say not easy at all, truthfuly it is pretty hard.
relax breathe hun repeat. . maybe try some of the tips.
I have such an easy time just talking to girls... It always seems like I have so much more in common with them than most guys.But then, I cannot cannot CANNOT discuss being anything more than friends. I don't know why, but it's the most terrifying thing you can possibly do. I risk my life on a daily basis for FUN and I'm certainly not afraid to say what I think in most situations. So why do girls scare me when I think of them as girls? You'd think jumping off a cliff would be scarier, but it's not. Why?I don't know.I just don't know.
awwww just relax be yourself breathe
Depends on where I am meeting a girl. I find it very difficult to talk to girls at a bar with her friends right there but in a different setting where she is alone like a coffee shop or in the park with her dog its much easier. Something about having her friends hovering right there in a pack stops a lot of guys from approaching girls.
definitely can see that. .
I know it got fantastically easier once I was married.When sex is completely out of the question, I found just about anyone to be approachable.
I have always been really shy around girls , even now when i do photography things with girls or new people at work i am still very nervy and dont really know what to say to them even in a professional level, my girl thinks its adorable.
awwww.. what kind of photography do you do
Bit of everything weddings (i really enjoy doing them) motorsport and when with others not so shy around girls i like portrait photography and taking pictures of my 4 nieces they live close and are very important to me and the rest of the family.
awwww just beautiful I love looking at photography
really depends on the girl, the more friendly and outgoing they are the more approachable and easy to talk to they are. I have gotten friendly with shyer girls, but those tend to develop over time. im an introvert myself :p
hmmm... I see what your saying I think I fit the outgoing and I think friendly.
I doubt everyone is easy to approach especially at random but you have to if you want to get somewhere.
Well mostly all are, but I find some intimidating so keep em a far and I try to learn them... I see how they interact with others... they're attitude.. if i find she's cool then I'll approach otherwise no
No, i'm awkward and scared to talk to most girls that I like honestly
Depends on who does the approach. If I have to approach them then it makes it more difficult for me to talk to them. If they approach me then it's infinitely easier.
so a bookstore?
Easy. We humans can communicate.Some however do not like that. It's easy to notice and easy to avoid.
I once had a girl I had attempted conversation with pull out a knife and start lunging for me... True story...
wait what that's scary, why she do that?
Guess she didn't like me...
don't let one girls actions deter you, we're not all like that hun..
Nope. If you don't say just the right thing, rejection. But then everyone, both guys and girls, over think on what to say, or how to say something.
not all of us are unapproachable but I agree with last part
Yeah, that's why I put the last part.
So would you give any advice to the guys who have a hard time talking to girls?
Grow some balls and just start by saying hi. I needed that advice myself, and lost a chance to meet someone.
Well its seems easy but i haven't talked or had experience that were awesome or worse!But ya i get nervous around pretty girls! *blushing*
It depends on the girl and how I am feeling that day. Do I I think I come off as approachable? Uhm, probably not.
Well yeah, it kinda hard to flirt with my guys friend... as a guy :/
Easier than guys for sure, girls are usually more welcoming when you wanna strike a conversation.
I think it's pretty easy to treat someone as a human being.
so is it easy for you to talk to girl's
Yes I think it's pretty easy. Not trying to say "oh women are so simple" so sorry if that's how it came off as.
no not at all just wanted to clarify
That depends in where the girl is. At a bar, no. At say in line at the grocery store, yes
that's true she's around freinds
Exactly and that makes it a little harder to approach her. Unless she gives off CLEAR signals
lol I can understand that. . any advice for a guy who does find it hard to talk to girls?
Actually when the girl you want to chat to is with friends is heaps easier. Don't approach her or any of them directly but just a casual comment to the group say like Either the birthday girl is blessed with the greatest group of friends or your workplace must be better than a fun factory.
@openhearted65 ooo I actually like that
If you are just referring the level of difficulty, then I think girls are easy to talk to.
anything that can make it not easy?
Not really. Even if a girl is extremely quiet or seems uninterested, it's not hard to get them to be more responsive.
I'd like to think so. Sometimes it is. Sometimes it isn't.
i think there's different ways to talk to different girls.
any advice for a guy who is really shy?
just do it. lol
It depends on the girl. Some are pretty easy, some aren't.
so what would make them not?
If they don't talk back, or act uninterested.
99.9999% of them absolutely not ! But luckily the girl I'm talking to is awesome.
awwww that's sweet
she's amazing i feel like i struck gold
that's how you should feel ll
No. Fuck no. Not for moi.
awww sad face maybe try a tip from the other guys
Don't know if that'll work or not. I'm kinda just there so to speak.
I'd relax and breathe repeat
I've tried that.
We are girlie 😁
You aren't girlie 😁
@Michael_Rc46 wait! really? Me? 😱
I am so
You'd definitely be easy for me to talk to haha. :D
@toad-1 Ahah of course toto 😊
You aren't!!! I'll get a heart attack or something 🙈
@Michael_Rc46 i'm missing an element here. What are you on about? 😐
See what I mean? Hard
@Michael_Rc46 you're confusing
Did you see my first message?
@Michael_Rc46 the "you aren't girlie" one?
@toad-1 I'm easy to talk to
Yeah that one. You said "me?" and I said yeah. Pretty simple
@Michael_Rc46 you're saying I'm not easy to talk to?
Don't know where that "you will give me a heart attack or something" came from though
Not you in particular. Just to express how difficult it is
@Michael_Rc46 difficult to talk to some girls, that you could get into a heart attack? Haha ok ok
Haha. You don't understand. I'll freeze up completely. Anyway... I'll get over it someday
yes very easy... since i'm always honest with them
honesty of course
I think I come off as approachable.
argentina-travel-blog.sayhueque.com/.../...e-1.jpg *approaches you with chocolates* :D
lmao coffee also seems to work :p@Toad_1
I can have the chocolates
god no. they are the exact opposite.
Some are, some aren't just like anybody else.
No. They are mean
I think they're easy to talk to :)
Yeah it pretty easy to talk to girls.
Or this one anyway. Say hey and I will carry on the covo. I love to talk!
yea it's not hard for me to talk either I work with public and people so I think I'd be approachable.
U look approachable. Do I?
yes girlie your very pretty. .
Yes on a case by case basis
Sometimes yes but at many times no.
Talk yes, flirt no
Yes they are very easy to talk to.
Nope. But if you break the ice then definitely
Yes very easy.
generally depends on their age, although depends on the person at the same time, it seems women in their 30's, 40's and older are easier to talk to than women in their teens and 20's are.
I can understand that I like to think I'm easy to talk to
many aren't. like many many.
No, not really
it becomes so hard to me when it comes to talking with girls
maybe try some of the tips other's have left
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