How can men be confident and be the men women want when things are so stacked against them?

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We see woman today complain about how hard it is to find a guy because they aren't enough men, terms like "male drought" and women complaining about men not approaching them anymore. I would like to know how young men ca be expected to be confident when things are stacked so much against them.

1. For example. You approach a girl and if you aren't male tier model you face getting rejected and ridiculed like this.


2. Woman are competing with men for high paying jobs and now many employers have a quota where they'll higher woman over men even if said male is more qualified. In addition, male's are discriminated in universities by both male and female teacher, as well as, there are less male scholarships available than woman.
How can men be confident and be the men women want when things are so stacked against them?

This has lead to many woman to write articles not addressing this but complain about how that the lack of men graduating mean they have a smaller dating pool for themselves.

3. Male masculinity being considered toxic and bad in society. Men are being brought that there way of interacting and expressing themselves is wrong. And yet at same time woman are attracted to masculinity which has caused a paradox with women now having less men they find attractive.



4. Risk of having your name slandered into the ground if you make a move on a girl and she doesn't find you hot. It's not uncommon for a woman to cause character assassination of a male who dared to show interest in her that she found unattractive referring to him as a creep in order to save face of shallowness.



5. Passive aggressiveness - Many men would build up the courage to ask a girl out who they had an interest in and in addition to getting a rejected the girl no longer wants anything to do with him. This is basically telling the male that she is so repulsed by him having an interest in her that she doesn't want anything to do with him. This sort of thing shoots down confidence of men so much that they fear asking another girl out and will look at themselves as ugly.

How can men be confident and be the men women want when things are so stacked against them?
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