Let me take some of your points girl issue points... haven't got time for all.for not being confident enough <--- non confident men find it very hard to find girls (even insecure ones). Women actually look down on you and take advantage (Seen it myself)... as men do to fellow men. ''for their virginity'' <--- men get shamed too for it. Very few men think twice if a woman is not a virgin... if she has slept with 10+ dudes some may... but when it comes to being a virgin... women dont want a peice of that and fellow guys and some women take the piss.''for their drinking habits'' <--- The amount of dating site posts by women saying ''no current or recovered alcoholics please''...My opinion: Men and women are judged for pretty much the same amount of things (and similar things as shown above) but in different ways.
Also I think men have a bit more of a backbone when it comes to being judged. At young ages boys take the piss out of others for any kind of abnormality (very skinny, fat, ginger)... most of the time it's in a joking way... so i think men are more conditioned to being judged harshly and often brush it off as a joke more then women do.
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By "your" I meant to tag @jxpxtxr.
I like adding diversity. Shame on me. 😱
Nah men are judged harsher.