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Most Helpful Guy
Yes, I always say what I mean. Sometimes I exaggerate but I generally have a talented to remain pretty cool-headed even if I'm very angry. I don't ever say things such as "I hate you" unless I actually truly mean them (which I don't think has ever happened so far).
I do have a bad habit of name-calling people sometimes when I'm very angry. However, it takes quite a lot to get me to that level of anger. But even if I call the other person an "asshole", that's the only thing I say that I don't mean. If it's about my feelings towards that person or my thoughts about our relationship, I am very careful to only say the truth. I've also never told my wife that I want to break it up with her, no matter how big the fight was. In my opinion, you just don't do that unless you've been thinking about it for a long time and you truly mean it (in which case it better to say it in a calm situation).2
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes people like to attack one's insecurities when they are mad because they know it will get to them. Sometimes people are actually spitting out truth. Sometimes they don't actually mean it. When I am angry, I am telling you the truth about yourself, because that is what made me angry. You are being a douche and now it ruined my mood. So, I am going to tell you exactly who you are and hopefully next time you'll think twice before doing that to me again.0