Hi. At every school I've been to I get bullied by girls. The problem is that I start to feel a lot of fear and anger when I see any girl, even though they haven't done anything. When they see my reaction, they start to dislike me because I assume the worst of them, which doesn't make the situation any better. How do I get rid of these feelings?
Most Helpful Guy
I know it's hard. I was heavily bullied in middle school to the point of intense depression and other problems but, you've got to hold on. You've got to survive it so that you're the one who comes out on top. After that you forgive them and put it behind you. Don't dwell on it. Defeat it and then let it go. Seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist is very helpful here. They can help you to overcome or at least to deal with any negative feelings that are bothering you. Be open and honest with them about what you're feeling. Don't hold back. This will get better and I will pray for you. :-)4
Most Helpful Girl
Fear and anger to me are the opposite perhaps you're resentful?
Anyways you have to let go of the past and start of fresh because not all girls are cruel. Give you're hurt to GOD and pray for healing. You just have to be careful who you befriend. If you're like me when I use to be bullied then you are a push over/people pleaser. You have to say no sometimes and stand up for yourself. Build your self esteem up so you won't tolerate a bully. That behaviour is unacceptable, no one should be treated so unkind.
Try making male friends, maybe he's got good female friends who aren't the bullying type. Just be careful though.6
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