Why do many American/Western Girls say Dicks are ugly?

[Anonymous]

I know plenty of straight girls who say things like - "Dicks are ugly, I'm not a lesbian but I appreciate the visual of a vagina, a vagina is beautiful, like a rose petal, boobs are beautiful but a dick looks like a worm in a sock" You even here some Straight girls say things like "dick picks are gross, a nude from a woman is more beautiful, but I'm straight though"

I don't understand this. I feel you can make a vagina ugly in your mind if you feel like it. "Ughh a vagina looks like an ugly slit, a meat curtain, beef flaps, looks like the predator's mouth, etc."... Now I personally don't think that. I think Both the Vagina and Penis are good looking.

I dated this one girl who said she was straight, she said she was not attracted to my male body or my penis, and she finds the female body more visually beautiful, but that she's not a lesbian, but she likes me for who I am even though she's not into my body or penis, but she likes it cause it makes her feel good and because it belongs to me. I honestly don't understand this till this day.

I also notice this seem to be a mostly American/Canadian idea some girls had. When I went to Japan last year and many Japanese girls actually think the penis is a beautiful organ and find it aesthetically pleasing. I also know many female art students from Russia and they think BOTH the penis and vagina are visually beautiful and they tell me Straight Russian Women don't find penises gross and appreciate the males body and sexual organ visually.

But when I hear some of these straight American women talk about the penis or male body they sometimes start to sound like lesbians to be honest. I don't understand. I'm a bisexual male and even without my sexually I can still appreciate the visual of both the penis and vagina. And since I'm attracted to both I appreciate both even more. I don't see how someone can be sexually attracted to males exclusively but at the same think the male parts are ugly and find women more attractive.

[BlueCoyote]

I actually don't ever hear this in real life (I'm from Europe) but I do read it a lot on this website. I've never understand this sentiment. Maybe it's just a social trend type of thing... it's currently considered "in" to say men (or penises) aren't attractive. I really don't know.
I'm a guy and I find both vaginas and penises beautiful and aesthetically pleasing in their own right. I actually think an erected penis can look quite hot and I consider myself overwhelmingly straight.

[richardace_123]

Yes I am straight too but I find vaginas to be way more uglier than dicks. An erect penis is actually pretty artistic, you can make comic sketches with it. But a vagina? It looks like a severly beat up incision with a lot of slimy stuff leaking out of it. Looks horrendous.

[whyhellohuman]

@richardace_123 nothing is artistic about an erect penis. Making comic sketches with it doesn't change the fact that it looks weird.

[markscott]

To me, it just depends on how you chose to think about dicks or vaginas. A vagina can not look very good when her legs are spread and I'm real hard and horny. It also seems that if a person can find nothing good looking about a dick and balls, it's because they don't fully appreciate the human body and it graceful forms.

[richardace_123]

Or the woman is very much insecure about vagina. Because after all a vagina is not really appealling and has a lot of issues with it. So to deal with her insecurity she insults a man's penis. It's basic human nature and psychology.

[whyhellohuman]

@richardace_123 not you out here making it about insecurities when the honest truth is dicks look ugly. "So to deal with her insecurity" who tf is "her"?

[1millonlies]

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Just because one girl thinks that a dick is gross looking doesn't mean it goes for all people. I don't know man. I personally think there both gross looking in a way.

[Asker]

Of corse my question doesn't speak for all American women, I made that lear in my question by using words like Some and Plenty. But at the same time I can't ignore common trends I keep experiencing depending on what i see daily and the women I talk to and women I've dated

[1millonlies]

And I wasn't saying I was talking about "all American women" just people in general. Listen this seems to bother you quite a lot. It doesn't matter what people think. If one person thinks a dick is more visual appealing then a vagina or vise versa then let them think so. I mean in the end there's really nothing you can do because all they are are just genitals you know.

[Asker]

But trends do exist. And many things can affect trends. Back then in Europe the male body was worshiped, they made statues our of naked men and penises. Other cultures in india worshiped the female body more. Culture does affect it but sometimes it does create problems. How would you feel if in state or country you live in most men didn't fin the female body attractive and found the male body more attractive but then claimed they were straight? It would bother many people.

[1millonlies]

Your right I see where your coming from. I would be bothered and a tad insecure. The best advice I can give is if you do meet someone who feels like that then you should leave. Clearly this seems like a deal breaker to you if you were in a relationship.. or are? Either way like I said It would bother me but just because it's more visually appealing doesn't mean it can't get a job done😉 Besides I don't think people look too much into this. There's more to someone than just how the look.

[Rissyanne]

Are you the same guy who ask a similar question all the time? That if a woman isn’t attracted to you she isn’t straight?

[Asker]

No I never asked a question regarding genitalia before this is my first. I never said that if a woman isn't attracted to a man she is gay, I said she sounds like a lesbian at times.

[nickyBBB]

Vaginas look gross lol, but I'm not exactly westren so... bye😂

[dinhuhisserved]

I don't know but they don't have a problem having a ugly dick in their mouth that's for sure.

[Asker]

thats for sure

[Asker]

by the way is it just me or have you see this behavior form women in the west?

[dinhuhisserved]

It's the norm here.

[Asker]

How come though? I've asked some people they think it's the leftist or "gay" agenda. Although I have no problem with gay people but I don't understand this bizarre behavior. I remember similarly there's this famous youtuber called Anna Akana, with millions of subs, she was talking about how she hates dick picks from her boyfriend becuase she thinks penises are ugly but that she's a straight women not a lesbian but that a vagina pic looks more attractive to her..., like wtf.

[dinhuhisserved]

I stumbled upon this but a hard dick is a phallic symbol of power and fertility. Everywhere in the world you see symbolism of vagina and penis everywhere just like some of our monuments and like the free mason sign can depict a vagina, hence as above so below. But anyways, I think they are curious and intrigued by the sight of dicks but just don't want to admit it cause of slut shaming which could also tie in with the feminist movement. Just my take though.

[Asker]

Yeah I can see your point. However it's fucking off putting trying to date a woman like that. Imagine a man telling a woman some shit like that "Even though I'm straight, I'm not into vaginas or boobs, I like you because of who you are, but I find the male body bisexually more attractive, but I'm not gay though, and please don't send me nudes, dick pics are better but I ain't gay" I'm sure many straight women would be confused as well. A woman whos into all of you and craves you and your body really makes you feel wanted and desired. At least thats how I feel. Anyways thanks for your input, I enjoyed it bro

[richardace_123]

True but they can't lick another woman's pussy. It's all insecurities because they know that their vaginas are way uglier and all the nasty stuff that goes on in their organ. They try to insult penis to make themselves feel good about their vaginas. Basic psychology

[youraveragehottie]

Anna Akana is bisexual actually and yeah, unsolicited dick pics whether you're in relationship or not are a no no like every nude without permission. It just happens that we women have to deal with a lot of them and we're kinda fed up with it.

[jacquesvol]

Dad, mom and other girls told them that, to keep them away from boys.
It's not new, it's centuries old.

[jacquesvol]

Why do you think this statue is under sized?

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Not because the sculptor didn't like penises: he was a very active bisexual. But it was tradition.

[RealTrutH89]

They are laying !!! they worship dicks.

[youraveragehottie]

I'm not from the west, but they're just not appealing to me.

Also some people are just not sexually attracted to other people.

[Anonymous]

Feminists are propagating a culture of man hating. Anything that is male is bad.

[richardace_123]

True. But I don't know how men feed into these. Like it's not common sense a vagina is filthier looking than a dick why believe it? It's obvious they are just hating on men.

[richardace_123]

I mean it's common sense that a vagina looks way more awful than a penis.

[Anonymous]

Because a vagina is way uglier and nastier looking. And women are naturally insecure. So to mask their insecurities about their vagina they will lyingly express how they find penises ugly. So don't fall for it and if you hear a woman tell you that, tell her how way nastier looking a vagina is. Let's see how she will respond, if she becomes highly offended then that's her insecurity showing.

[Opinion Owner]

Another reason also why women are so tactless about this is because men enable them. They can make men feel undesired but men have to make them feel desired. Why put up with that? Tell them straight up that a vagina is way uglier because it is the truth. I am straight, but a vagina is way uglier it looks like the mouth of the creature from the movie Predator, or it looks like a severly chewed bubble gum. Penis may be a little funny looking but a vagina looks more horrendous with the stuff that leaks out of there.

[youraveragehottie]

I do have a lot of insecurities due to my disorder, but I wouldn't mind if you called my vagina ugly. I just find vaginas more appealing than penises and am more sexually attracted to them even though I'm bi.