Most Helpful Guy
I don't think it's a problem at all. Who doesn't love attention?1
Most Helpful Girl
It depends on the kind of attention you're seeking. If you want to be noticed, it's perfectly acceptable to be outgoing and jocular. If you're seeking attention because you feel you have to be in the limelight constantly, you may have a bit of a problem. You don’t have to be in the spotlight at all times. You should be content with the attention you get when in social situations without going over board. Extreme attention seeking is a sign of narcissism as well. We all seek attention, but it should be in reasonable amounts.
I really do agree with you on that point about kindness though.3