Should female toplessness be allowed on the beach the way male toplessness is? (Page 2)
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It is always allowed here. It is personal choice. I guess this question relates mostly to the US. I remember some mom ranting at me on a beach in the US once. I had been laying down with my top undone and stood up. I had no clue what she was on about until dad handed me my top. Something about corrupting her kids... weird...
How old were you at the time?
@Highsxhoolstudent14 I think
You’re dad let you go to the beach topless when you were 14?
Your*
@Highsxhoolstudent15 It's common some places. I was in the Greek Islands and some smoking-hot French girl who was about 17 pulled off her top and laid down right next to me.
@Highsxhoolstudent15 Yes of course, we have always chosen to be topless on beaches as it means no tan lines and no uncomfortable wet top after swimming. i just forgot on the beach in the US and stood up after undoing my top. I know that there it is not so normal, but in Europe we are more relaxed.
Only if topless females becomes a normal thing in general... not just the beach. It's okay to see shirtless guys in many situations, but women are barely allowed to show anything. The thing is that if it became a normal thing, it would desensitize men to seeing it and it wouldn't turn us on as easily. It's the same concept as when showing even their ankle was considered provocative behaviour and showing too much. However, topless females will not be normalized anytime in the near future, and men will continue to sexualize that part of the female body, so no... I do not believe topless beaches should be a thing.
Oh my god what's this world leading itself to?
Hope I die before any of that dumb shit spreads
What's gotten into people these days? Why are they so eager to get attention by showing their bodies? Seems like a desperate move to seek more attention and give value to looks more than the mind and personality of a girl
And girls complain why they get sexualized so much
Then don't run around and shove your naked breasts in peoples' faces
This is what happens when people throw their morals and values away, if you're okay with this happening, you should ask yourself "what's next?"
I'm pretty sure what's next is being able to legally and freely walk completely naked anywhere
Would you accept that for your girlfriend, wife, or 13-year-old daughter? Be fucking logical
I'm all for respecting women and women rights, but sorry if a woman doesn't respect herself, how can I look her in the eyes without feeling disgust?
Smh people are reversing back to nude chimps
Hint: if you normalize bare breast, overtime they will not be oversexualized 🤦♀️. So hiding them is what keeps the oversexualizion of women’s bodies. Use logic
Wow that's the only problem you focused on
Just wow
So you're okay with the streets getting filled with completely naked whores?
What do you mean “that’s the only problem you focused on” ? That IS the only problem. And a whore is someone who sleeps with others for MONEY. Being topless doesn’t mean you want to have sex with others and get money for it. You are severely confused. Stop thinking with your emotions and use logic and reasoning.
You're telling me that they won't be considered as whores by the general people?
And no that's NOT the only issue
There are soo many other problems with this
For example how are new couples gonna cope with it huh?
What's gonna be so special if a couple had sex? The only difference between the boyfriend and the ten thousand creepy men who stared at the girlfriend would only be being able to touch what he sees
Do we need even more breakups/divorces than we already do? Society doesn't need more hate and seperation, it needs true love to bond people together -.- It would become a general social problem
Think about it, it has A LOT of severe disadvantages, it's not even a change for the better in any way, it's just a couple of dumb illogical "why not" ideas mixed up by crazy people
No, as a woman's chest is sexual.
Some may say that breasts aren't actually sexual or that they are only sexual because we make them out to be that way.
To which I say: "Assuming I assume my dick to not be sexual — Could I just go butt naked?"
- "Yeah but that's toootally different.."
Yet I'm sure that if you were to show a group of a hundred men a picture of a woman's chest - something like 75 will say it's attractive.
Show a hundred women a picture of a man's Popsicle and you'll get something like 25 finding the ding-dong attractive.
No. I don't want to see some woman's tatas when I'm at the beach, just like I don't want to see some guy's junk in a skin-tight speedo. Wear something appropriate, and have the decency to cover up, because guaranteed no one wants to see that (save for perverts, let's be honest).
It’s just skin. What’s the problem. And if you are the one with the problem don’t look or stay away.
@VIVANT why do I have to get inconvenienced? Want to go topless, go to a nude beach or something where that’s allowed. I don’t want to see someone naked, and I don’t want to see a woman’s breasts (most girls I know don’t like to strip to underwear in front of each other—you think having girls go topless will be any less uncomfortable?)
*most people wouldn’t want to see that, generally. Like it or not there’s a difference between seeing a man topless and a girl topless. Again, if y’all wanna do that go find a beach where that behavior is allowed or encouraged, but keep it to yourselves. Why should more people be inconvenience who DON’T want to see it?
I seriously dont care, but dont be surprised by the rise of sexual assaults.
You are free to do whatever you want, but you can't just do whatever you want, and think there'll be no consequences.
I dont care wether those consequences are rightful or not. They happen, so you just have to live with that, when making a decision.
That was a rather deep response to a question involving boobs
Sexual assaults will happen regardless of what women do. Having a top or not will not have a significant effect on men being pieces of shit. European countries have nude beaches and their men don’t assault women at significantly higher rates...
@ktdec "Sexual assaults will happen regardless of what women do", yes but there is no point in making it even worse, by havin women run around topless.
Thats like saying, there will be crime no matter how much police we have, so lets stop fighting crime alltogether.
Sexual aussaults happen everywhere, even in european countries.
Yes because there’s nothing wrong with boobs just like there’s nothing wrong chest (on men). It isn’t my problem if someone gets aroused. I have learned how to desensitize my mind. So I feel comfortable with it without clothes. I hate the beach. I don’t get the appeal but if I were to go, I’d prefer to go to a nude one where it’s considered appropriate.
With or*
Funny thing is that men get harassed and he complains is seen as weak but it's not the same for women
I don’t get how that’s relevant to my response but ok
If a woman is topless and somebody harasses her it would not be seen as weak
Again... WHAT does that have to do with my response? None of what I said had anything to do with harassment or weakness
It's their problem if they fet aroused, and let me tell you that it's your problem if you get raped and harrased
Okay 👍🏾
Miss leonie your better then this 😌
Better than what
Take your time and think about and you will know it 🙂
Nah I’m good. I’m not better than anything or anyone. And I’m definitely not worried about being raped or harassed in PUBLIC NUDE BEACH. Because number one—I hate the beach 😂 I will never go to another beach unless someone forced me at gun point and dragged me by my hair. Secondly, I’m sure that bad stuff may happen sometimes but I highly doubt that so many people would be willing to go if it were that dangerous.
I will be okay 👍🏾
No one will drag you by your hair or rape you miss leonie, your a nice girl and i also don't go to the beach unless i wanna spend some calm time to relax and eat something... cause i don't know how to swim 🤫
But yea i might ask you to bake an orange cake for me with a fresh orange juice ans if they were delicious, you will be rewarded 😁
No thanks
Your welcome... do you feel low miss leonie if you cooked or done something for a man?🤨
Not exactly. I just don’t want to extend kindness to someone just solely based on the fact that they’re a man.
Okay, don't extend your kindness, your were never kind to me, it's like i'm really going to eat the cake or as if your going to bake me one...
Your very serious, do you even laugh or smile in reality 😒
Yep, a lot.
Weird 🤨
It’s weird to laugh and smile a lot? Ok...
Nope it's weird that with me you act the opposite of what you say... i'm not a beast 👹
You’ve given me no reason to be nice or playful with you.
Right now, I am happy, content, and warm. But that doesn’t mean I have to share that with everyone I interact with.
You (or anyone else) may annoy me for a moment but that doesn’t affect my overall mood.
I'm not here to annoy you and too bad if you don't find me kind and playfull, don't want you or need you to be nice with me cause i actually don't care... and when ever you feel that you had enough, just press the block button and that's it leo leonie 😊
Sure! Before people start assuming I'm a perv, let me just tell you all, I don't know why breasts are such a big deal anyway. I seriously believe a huge part of the reason why most people are obsessed with breasts is because they're considered private and kept hidden. 😐 About genitals, I get it, they're organs directly used for reproduction so I can understand why they're hidden, why maybe just bring those out for the person you wanna get intimate with and make babies with. But what's with breasts? If we start treating them normally, like hands, feet, etc., I'm sure this "only perverts look at boobs" and "only sluts show their boobs" mentality will go away.
I'm still going anonymous for this because I know some people will judge me in a negative way and I'm sure the reason would be a misunderstanding because I'm not really very good at explaining my points but I hope people get my point about this topic. 😅
Well I'm male, and yeah, I wouldn't mind the view at all, lol, but it really is no big deal and if it were legal and women actually did it, it would after a while become "no big deal" I think. Problem is even if they did legalize it (like they have in Canada), very few women do it, ever! The first year it became legal was when I seen a few do it, and I haven't seen 1 since.
And I really do believe in equal rights that way. They should be able to if they choose. Like they say, there are a lot of guys with bigger breasts than some women have lol.
I think besides female toplessness
Male bottomlessness should be allowed as well.
😛
Yea until you see an ugly guy lol
I am just saying fair is fair.
Girls are gonna expose themselves that way, guys might as well...
Male toplessness isn't the same as female toplessness...
Well that I agree with
And one day we look at ourselves and we are in a nudist beach 😂
I don't really like the idea of it though lol
Of bottomlessness? Lol
I like the idea of toplessness and bottomness of females yes of course just not a nude beach because I don't wanna see guys doing the same lol
Ah. Of course :P
But I do like the beach mostly because the beach closest to me has casinos right next to it lol
I see lol
I'd be for that but women bottomless too.
Yeah thats sooo fair 😒😛
Witchs lol you must really like being bottomless
😒😒😒
I see we do not understand each other
I read your reply, and then I wondered "This girl must be Asian".
And then I checked your profile - and I'm right!!! Haha!
Lol I put that there but I am not Asian
by the way why would you think Id be Asian by mu reply?
you are not from korea?
Because it is a very "asian" way of thinking about the topic. Haha. Sorry then, I made a mistake. A thousand apologies!
It is ok. Honest mistake. Lol I didn't know it was an Asian way of thinking lol
You mean an eye for an eye? Lol
Yes. The Asian way is the calculative way. Hah!
I had some experiences with that, growing up, so I totally understand it.
I agree!
@Paige90 @WitchsLove - seems like your opinion is very popular!
Women bottomless also
Lol That is not the purpose of this
😒
You see, female bodies are just more sexualised than male bodies are- and this won’t help. People may think this is for equality and “everyone should be treated the same” and I DO 100% agree, but the fact that everyone *isnt* treated the same- and women are always more sexualised than men- is why this ain’t a good idea.
Women sexualize men with huge bulges, there's nothing wrong with it. If you've got it, flaunt it
+If you’re comfortable with it
I agree it’s women who are more sexualized 🤔 think about
I was at a store called Spencer’s about a month ago. My boyfriend, his guy friend, and I were looking at posters. Of course they had naked chicks on there (which I don’t care and I don’t care if my boyfriend was looking at them. His mouth dropped when there was lesbians kissing naked) BUT NO SHIRTLESS NAKED GUYS DAMMIT AND I WANT TO SEE MORE OF THAT😂
I see tv shows where the put the girl in slow motion when running when dudes barley get put on there.
Men might be sexualized but not enough. (In my point of view and I say this with the least intention of harm xD
You say you agree with being equals but don't wanna do anything you want the world to change they way it works but not the way it thinos the fact of the matter is that guys are comfortable showing their chest because we always have and yes some guys might stare or do perverted things but the longer it happens the more normal and less crazy it well seem but if we never make it happen their will always be a Barry between the two genders
Oh that’s true I never thought about that, you have a point @Lilrodaggie
To see this from a rational viewpoint and forgetting all nonsense religious and cultural dogma that its "sinful" or "degrading", I would say there is nothing wrong with that. The only difference is that female breasts are usually bigger and have the intention to breastfeed babies, because we are mammals. There is nothing "dirty" or "nasty" about it, thats only some stupid crap our society came up with.
And we men are only so fascinated by them because its a natural instinct to find the perfect female to reproduce and to feed the children
There is a big difference between male and female toplessness, men have nothing special to show there, while womens breasts are, and always have been, an object of sexual desire. So you can't really compare it in a such way. If men wore really short panties to the pool for an example, and their dick was hanging out, it would be inappropriate, while women could do the same thing and be fully appropriate, because they have nothing that hangs down there.
All this being said, I still voted "Yes" because boobs.
I do not really want to see the naked breasts of other women jiggling around to be honest. There are nudist beaches for stuff like that...
As far as I know it is even allowed here for sunbathing. at least I've seen it several times and no one seemed to mind.
I don't understand why topless is a big deal! They are just boobs!!
The laws in most communities list female breasts as sex organs. They are not, even if they arouse others. They are there to feed babies, and should be respected. Trying to shame women into covering them is wrong. We should all follow the same set of rules. Let women be a free as men to show their bodies and what God has bestowed upon them.
Just on designated places. I think it’s still inappropriate for younger children to see that. I would feel very awkward laying on the beach topless and having young boys staring at my breasts.
Someone mentioned there will be a rise in sexual assaults. That’s the other thing. There will be guys who take candid photos of topless girls.
Sexual assaults could possibly go down if it desensitizes men.
@TsundereMatrix "I would feel very awkward laying on the beach topless.."
So keep your top on then, just because topless bathing is legal doesn't mean you have to do it. It just means that for woman that want to do it they can.
Also there is no evidence that sexual assaults increase as a result of topless bathing. Topless bathing has been normal in Australia and Europe for decades.
Why would it be inappropriate for younger children? Most have seen their mothers breasts at some point. It's not the young boys that would be staring - prepuberty most don't think much about sex.
What do you mean “that’s the only problem you focused on” ? That IS the only problem. And a whore is someone who sleeps with others for MONEY. Being topless doesn’t mean you want to have sex with others and get money for it. You are severely confused. Stop thinking with your emotions and use logic and reasoning.
I did vote "yes", admittedly, and I am a guy.
BUT...
I'm British. I've been to Europe enough to know that if toplessness is normalised then it becomes easier to breastfeed in public.
What should be banned is 300lb men in speedos. Ain't nobody wants to see THAT!
Sir I fully concur!
Be honest. This is so regular in May places it’s not a turn on for many people. In U. S. the guys are so inexperienced they like Gaga over nothing.
Personally it was like that but after while. Self control kicks and treat women by looking at her face during conversations. Guys have chest as much as women in different sizes that there men who may need to wear support as well.
Again. There line and by reading you can see different between inexperienced.
I think it’s usually allowed, at least in the beaches I went to. It’s different than male toplessnes because women’s breasts are sex organs, unlike men’s.
Sex organs? I don't think so!
yeah, not sex organs but highly sexualized, I really like seeing women topless on the beach, and I see them on regular beaches and even when they come with their kids and husbands, it's really nice to see that, simply haha :)
@Paige90 yes they are sexual organs like it or not, it' not you who decides, it's the man who decides if their sexual or not...😒
@TonyMetal86 Like it or not they are not sex organs. All because perverted guys like you think they are doesn't mean they are sex organs.
@Paige90 pervert, really? Then watch out from perverts not to bite you at night little dummy... still a female boobs are sexuals organs... face the facts little pos
as someone already said here breasts are not sexual organs as their function is not sexual, breasts are a secondary sexual trait, their function is primarily this as wikipedia page says "In females, it serves as the mammary gland, which produces and secretes milk to feed infants."
and then this
"Along with their major function in providing nutrition for infants, female breasts have social and sexual characteristics. Breasts have been featured in notable ancient and modern sculpture, art, and photography. They can figure prominently in a woman's perception of her body and sexual attractiveness. A number of Western cultures associate breasts with sexuality and tend to regard bare breasts in public as immodest or indecent. Breasts, especially the nipples, are an erogenous zone. "
@howlyz i hope this dummy who wants to be a nudist in public have read what you wrote... also if it's not sexual than why the majority of women are so worried about their boobs and some are obsessed with them... guy do you see my boobs seductive? I never saw a guy asking a girl about his boobs/chest hahaha...
I think that the saying is true that the majority of women have pea sized brain 😂