Doesn't seem like it at all, not even in the slightest bit
Generally when you can't find "goodness" in others it's because you have trouble finding the "goodness" in yourself. Stop trying to find good women, instead try and find good in you. Learn to love yourself then try and love others. If you aren't happy with yourself, you won't be happy with others. This is partially because of what I said before, but also because when we have a negative impression of ourselves we surround ourselves with negative people.
I do love myself, and I see a lot of good in myself, not in women though
So you love yourself, but not others? You can see the good in yourself, but deny even the possibility of it existing in others? Why did you ask this question? You keep insisting women are the ones doing wrong when you haven't even met most of them.
Sorry, I posted without finishing, give me a minute.
There are two reasons I can think of. One you don't actually believe what you are saying and want someone to prove to you there is still hope. Two that you have come to this conclusion, and you want others to agree with you as a sort of justification. Judging by the fact that you keep spouting the same message instead of a proper response, I think it's the later.
I don't have time who only want to hear themselves, if I'm wrong, I'd love to hear it. I doubt that though. I tried to be nice to you and you ignored it, this makes me think your actual problem is not being able to accept "goodness" when you do find it in people.
It's because they're faking it so they can get my trust and betray me, like they always have and always will
I'm sorry for the things that I've said
@Carbon-12Very well put in your posting! Individuals are just that, individual. Judging someone by another untreated person's actions is just doing them and yourself a disservice!
Don't feel bad, I also got out of line. I often see people on here and they just seem to be blocking themselves in these little fantasies that are bad for them, and those around them. I made lots of assumptions about you, I'm sorry of that. I understand you are just frustrated, and I shouldn't be getting mad at you for being upset. Also being a women and treating you unfairly will just reaffirm any negative associations you may have. Unfortunately, as I said, people are not perfect. The best we can do is own up to it when we make mistakes.@MercuryG Thank you.
That makes no sense whatsoever
I'll bet it makes sense to everyone else.
@OlderAndWiser you are just wasting your time on this one.
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People do it because I'm compassionate and accepting
I haven't seen any
It's because I haven't found a logical answer yet
Nobody can give it to you or help you sadly.You are on your own and have to find the answer yourself.
I did find it
Then close the question and don't ask it again.You don't need other opinions.
I know one that I talk to everyday because she is such a good woman, and you know who it is :)
No, I'm sure you know who it is. :)
I'm very lost rn lol
I find the exact opposite everywhere
Maybe you aren't looking in the right places, or maybe you have some false premises, as to what a 'good' woman is?
If I made the criteria just a girl who doesn't just want to take advantage of people, that would eliminate all of them
I don't understand how that last response is relevant? Were you posting, about 'all' but really focused on just one individual one, that hurt you?
Even if they existed, they'd be taken
Nowhere near the rate at which women do it to men
I've tried it, it just makes me angry
It's you here right? I know who you are.
Emotional support is what she used me for
Sorry to hear that
Yes, of course they do, but I'm not gay
And I'm too different from others to have friends
yes, yes you are
It's because of my different interests and weird combinations of hobbies. I don't mind though
They always choose the same guys though...
It's the exact opposite, only a naive guy who's lying to himself, or a girl trying to pull you back in to take more would disagree.
This attitude is why no woman wants to be good to you
This is a consequence of what they do, not a cause
Several thousand is more than a couple
You haven't had several thousand. It's simply math. A couple hundred if you dated every day for a year, maybe, but if you did, then I'd say you're the problem.
I look around, same thing is being done to everyone else at some point
Well by that standard, 0.0004% of people is your sample size. Only 0.000833% of men, and even lower for women. And that's giving you the generous assumption of having spoken with 30,000 people. When in all likelihood, it's a few hundred at best.You are making broad generalizations based on a very few interactions.
When your results are that skewed in one direction, it's clear that a ton of them are trashy
You don't have those results. You're doing a survey. That means that your results are much lower and you need other's input. So, you seek out people to give you input, and because of confirmation bias, you almost certainly seek out those that tell you what you want to hear.
Because this are the only people being honest
And you're being biased. So your conclusions are invalid. That means this is literally just you seeking attention and trying to find guys to stroke your ego and verify your insane ideas.
If someone had asked me after the fact if I still had faith in women, I would've said yes because I wanted to give them more chances, but I'm done given them chances
You're scorned, I get it. If you want to be sad and salty about a few bad interactions, fine. But don't do the attention whore thing, it's just sad.
I'm not doing that at all, I want them to stay out of my life, and I want other men to know their true intentions so it won't keep happening to them
I don't think you're being honest with yourself. And if you are, do you think you're going to convince someone like me to cut the women out of my life? (***hint*** you won't)Just live your life, bud. If other men feel the same way, there are sites you guys can sit on and commiserate. Posting questions here looks like an attention grab.
@TheKack I'm sorry for the things I've said, it's just that I deal with a ton of really bad things (not related to girls) and I sometimes ball everything together
It's fine. I understand. Being young is stressful. Being young, single, and in today's world is even more stressful. I just don't think that having a negative outlook is the way to go about things, it's actually really counter productive to having a happy life.
@TheKack it's really deep though, I shared things with her that I didn't share with anybody, and she told everyone she knew everything. So I feel once again that I can't tell people. It's bad enough to suffer, but to suffer and not be able to tell people around you is even worse
I get it. But you will heal with time
They are everywhere
It’s true, go to Africa or a coven. Those woman are so nice, I think they decided look again to make multiple people happy instead of just one man.
Yeah, so they can move to America and take all your money
They left America to help people in other countries, you could just live with her in poverty since your worried about her letting money currupt her.
I'm not poor, nor am I rich, actually
Niether is she, you can go to Africa and become a humanitarian if you care that much about wanting a good woman
I need access to treatment, a continent full of black people surely won't have access to the healthcare and treatment I need to survive
Well then it looks like your doomed to never having access to humble women.
I'm not into black women anyways
I wasn’t talking about you being racist i was referring to not wanting to deal with women that are spoiled by western society
From what I hear too, foreign women are even more likely to just be using a man
Lol so you go by what hear? How that working out for u
It's really not
Okay. That’s your opinion and I have my own 🤣
On what planet?
Sunday churches, dude.
I don't believe in God, and from what I hear, it's the opposite
I'm just saying from what I actually see. No one tells you to believe in anything here. You're looking for a woman with good morality, right?
Yes, but I'm unsure if it's worth the effort as I question whether they even exist.
You want a good woman who is willing to share her life with you, but you try to bargain her value with timid attitude? Come on, dude.. There's a truth in "you pay peanuts, you get monkeys".
I've made a lot of effort, but only gotten burned. They put zero effort and everything works out for them, how is that fair?
Who's they? The girls from the churches?
Girls in general
Why do you think you're ugly?
I’m always single lol my phone is dry and I always get rejected
Why answer insincerely instead of not answering at all?
I believe this is what I one calls... Sarcasm?Lol
@amartna its not insincere, if you belive women are all bad then they are for youand you should stay awayno woman would be happy with man thinking that about women anyway
Then why haven't I met one yet?
Maybe you have, but did not pay attention to her or got to know her enough.
I assure you I haven't
Trust me, they exist. Maybe you did not have luck or good women are more rare where you live.
I'm laughing so hard
I'm laughing because I don't believe you