Are women supposed to let themselves go as soon as they get married?

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Or if they have a baby?
No this is not a judgment. It’s more of an observation. I know that a lot of men are going to say “no”, but according to my observation, the men tend to stay married to the women who gained a lot of weight and stopped putting effort into their appearances. So, the answers I’ve seen don’t really match up to what actually happens. I’ve also seen thin and fit mothers, but they have all told me that there would always be at least one heavyset woman shaming them for being so thin.
Are women supposed to let themselves go as soon as they get married?
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