Do you give up on people easily?

[Shafaq_Mahnoor96]

It depends how attached I got to them, what type of relationship we hold, how long I've known them for and what the current situation is. If I feel that the situation is not right between us and we seem to have Issues often, and I've not known them for long then I'll be quick to give up and cut them out. It's all to do with how deep of a bond I've developed with that certain Individual.

Also if I we don't get along and I feel like we don't have much common ground or the stuff that I like then yeah I would tend to give up and move on. If I'm not so attached to them I'll easily cut them off, especially if our friendship or any sort of relationship is toxic and there's loads of drama. Whereas if I am attached that I really want them in my life I wouldn't be able to cut them out easily, if I did try to do that I would miss them very much that I'll end up trying to get in contact with them again.

But I really think I shouldn't give up on people so easily, everyone deserves a second chance. I think the only time I should give up on them easily is when they don't treat me right, talking to them puts me in a bad mood, they're fake friends and they bully me, they're only there for me when it's convenient for them and lastly if they hurt my feelings purposely. Also If I gave them enough chances and they still haven't changed then I would.

[ZELLxoxo]

It is not in my nature to do that. I might become distant or just fade way for a while letting them do their own thing but those who I truly care about, I check up on them and they are always aware what they mean to me.

Even if they are mean to me I try my best to remember their good qualities more than their bad qualities.

A wise man once said, 'when you love someone, all you can think about is their good qualities but when you hate them, all you can remember is their bad qualities''

[Dongtai]

Not sure. I ice people out quicker than I used to. Especially girls. If someone hurts me, I mentally blacklist them. I don’t go out of my way to hurt them but I don’t go out of my way to have them in my life either.

I used to be forgiving to a fault. I learned that people will treat you the way you let them. So I stopped letting them treat me ways I didn’t want. Sometimes that means removing them from my life. I mentioned girls because I’m girl crazy, so it was mostly girls I used to let hurt me repeatedly. But now I have healthier boundaries.

Balance is the key. Don’t let people walk over you. But also don’t be a jerk.

[MannySimms]

Yeah. I give everyone 2 shots as everyone deserves a second chance. But just 2. The list of people "dead to me" is very long and includes all of my blood relatives. Folks are friends until YOU could use a hand. Relatives want your money.
I gave out my inheritances over a decade ago rather than have folks await my demise. Been over a decade since I've heard from any of them. I was wealthy at the time and gave houses, cars, etc. Family value$, right?

[SpacedCharr]

Hm, good question.

For me, it's a better description to say I don't even believe in people to begin with.

I will give the benefit of the doubt, and expect the worst in people. And they often prove me right.

So I don't often need to give up on them - I was never invested to begin with.

[aWes0MeNeSs]

No, I have the opposite problem, and it's hurt me. I don't know when it's time to give up because I'm only wasting my time, neglecting myself in order to try to help them, or allowing them to hurt me.

I always assume people will see things the way I do and appreciate the help, but that's not always the case.

[godlovesweed]

Bob marly said *if she's amazing then she won't be easy if she's easy she won't he amazing everyone's going to hurt you. You just have to find the ones worth hurting for* I think if they give up they aren't worthy and your better off moving on if not then they wanna be in your life

[justheree]

This world is already a dark one. I dont give up on people because I know what it feels to feel alone like no one is listening or caring. I hate that feeling so much that I make sure no one around me feels that way. It all comes with communication. I know some people might push you away but a simple message telling them you'll be there if they need you. I only give up on people who actually physically hurt me because that's not healthy.

[leahzrc]

I dont get attached but on the rare occasion that I did, i act like i am fine on my own and that I don't need them because they don't deserve anything from me if they don't treat me right

[DontFvckingAskMe]

Yes I do. Im a lone Wolf, an introvert. I dont Like their stupid Go Here and Here occasions. I want to be Aline and Gate going to Partys. I would spend time with Thema If it is comfortable Not stressfull.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person I suppose. In general, no I do not. However, if it's a dating scenario, and I know from the beginning I'm not interested in them, then I don't entertain it for much longer. And I don't think it would be fair to do that anyways.

[MindYourEyes]

It depends on the person and how much history we have.
But I think that's something I need to work on and learn to communicate better. and get rid of those that serve no good purpose.

[QueenTanya]

Yeah. If they're starting to lose interest and I don't really love them enough to hold on then I'll just let go. It's easier and I don't have to waste time or go through any heart-break

[NineBreaker]

No, I do not, and I think one should not; within reason, of course.

[Agape93]

Depends on what is going on. But yes I’m quick to cut most people out of my life.

[CuriousMufuxka]

No. That would involve taking stock in them beforehand.

[Nikki1989]

No, I am the opposite. I hang on to them for far too long.

[ollie254]

No... because God never gives up on us. We may depart in flesh but not in spirit my love stays even when I go

[Daniel3035]

Usually depends on the person though. I don’t like to waste time.

[anon841]

I don't and it is my problem. It is very self destructive.

[WhiteShoulder]

Not if they're close friends or loved ones

[Ally247]

I don't but maybe I should

[Babygirl_S]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

No I don’t