Im sorry. Guess you've made that clear. I get it... Im horrible... All of it... Im done here... I've tried to reconcile and got was met with spite and hatred... May not be related. Again sorry...
Since when did you lie? Also your question is, asking if it's okay. I don't think it is, but I don't understand how, that makes you a horrible person. Also, people lie, even thought it's not right, it doesn't make them bad or horrible people, it's just means they like to avoid, awkward situations.
I should just quit while i have something left of myself.. Dont mind me. Mind games got me a perturbed. My question may come later about it.
Oh, I am sorry I don't know, what you lied about, but we all make mistakes. I hope you can work things out with the person you lied too. You can always mend broken bonds, you just have to try.
I've hurt her immensely. I've known that. I suppose her way of tearing me down was her way of revenge? I was ok. Im just gonna leave her be. I've done enough damage. Thank you darlin. Perhaps i jumped thinking id be ok on this app but its only proved that i can made to feel worse. I can't convince someone of something if all they ever saw was me at my darkest point in life. Then turn it on me... Id never wanted this... My fault i guess.. As she clearly put
Listen, all friendships/relationship are 2 ways, you can't be the only one to blame for things not working out. This person has choose to risk everything, because you hurt them, that is on them. No relationship is easy, that is why both parties have to make it work, if one of makes hurt the other. It's the choice of the other person when they, ruin your friendship or not. Also, if it was her that hurt you in the same way would you forgive her? If yes, then you can't be that horrible, stop blaming yourself. You need to work hard, to be the best you can be, no matter what. Also, you don't know she might forgive you, unless you cheated on her, then I don't think she will forgive you, but you shouldn't beat yourself up for being human, and making a mistake.
I haven't cheated. We haven't been together for awhile now... Just ugh... I was fine. Finally comfortable in my own skin again. I was starting to get over it... Then she royally embarrasses me.. On social media... After everything all i wanted was clear communication... The extent thats happened. How can i be ok with that? -sigh- why couldnt she just be clear and talk to me directly. Why was it like this?
It's not your fault, she probably sent that without thinking of how, it would make you feel, you didn't do anything. She probably was having a bad day and took it out on you, you don't deserve to be treated like that, nobody does. I had that happen to me too. Yet, I too stopped talking to the people that did that too me. I think sometimes, when people keep hurting you over and over again you think it something you did, but it's not you that is the problem, it the other persons behaviour. Like when I got bullied at school, I was messed up real bad, but people told me it's not my fault, it's the bullies that have the problem. So what ever has made you feel like this, all I have to say is it's not you that has the problem it's them. You should make yourself happy, after all there is only one you and we all hurt sometimes, and get hurt by people we trust and care about, but it's not us that need to change, after all we are just on the receiving end of there, blame game. All you can do is move forward, and stay positive and try not to let it get to you.
Well she's said nothing directly to me. It vague but super detailed amd im done with it tbh. This is not how communication works...
You dont screw with someone like that. Done! If she wants to to talk she knows how.
I think you are doing the right thing, you need to distance yourself, from mean people, that don't show you the same level of respect you show them. Like you said if she wants to talk, she knows how, but you shouldn't have to talk to someone after they did that, that's just wrong.
Awesome! Thank you😊
Welcome ♥️ it should be"yes honey, I love you, but you"do" look fat in those jeans 😂😂
I can agree with that to an extent
By the way was this question inspired by the “white lie” the CDC has been telling Americans for three months that masks are useless for the general public, before abruptly changing their advice a day ago?
Random philosophy question... Nothing more...
Ok. It wound up being well timed.
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If your heart is in the right place, it's probably not as bad
As an anonymous person. Could you give that example?
This may be a bad example, but if you lie when a Nazi asks you if you're hiding Jewish people in your house and you lie and say no so no one gets murdered. It's okay to lie in that case.
Thats a saving a life difference. Yea. Bad example given what your saying.
Ok, even if the situation isn't life and death, it's okay to lie to protect someone from another person who has bad intent toward them.
What you mean?
This example is not great, but if you have a friend who is hiding from bullies at school and the bullies ask you if you've seen him and you say no, even though you know where he is hiding, that's an okay lie.
Thats not a lie. Thats protecting your friends. Still different... Im sorry if i seem harsh or mean. Given what you have. How can i help of your not particular? Would it help to dm me for more privacy? I won't disclose anything. You seem perturbed and I wanna help
Could be anything... Ask yourself... Think about it...