Is it bad that I don't expect a man to provide or protect me from anything?

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i normally prefer to go 50/50 on the first date or I'll be the one pursing/ offering to pay to take the guy out.

And I don't expect a guy to protect, provide, or really give me anything. While I do believe in gender equality, it feels strange to have a man buy me gifts, or take me out. I've always been used to setting. I had a close male friend say that he basically wanted to be my boyfriend because he saw potential in my writing and one day I could be the main breadwinner.

Which I don't mind being the breadwinner.

Litterally everyone tells me my standards are too low but I think they're realistic and hopefully makes me more attractive to people.
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