Literally that’s the same for me my parents kept me from the real world too I grew up un aware. And even now I can do adult stuff still don’t feel like an adult. I can’t even buy a house today.
If you don't mind me pointing out: And funnily of all people you need to be less materialistic - or at least less materialistic in spiritual matters -, it always feels somehow wrong to see this contrast when your highly spiritual ideas suddenly are interrupted by some reference to lots of money or to large palace or something like that.
* don't get me wrong, of course it is healthy goals and aims but to directly mix it with God or spiritual is just not right.
@Regmorus I don’t mention money very often my two goals in life are love and peace and security
Hm O_O I don't know then why I have this impression, but I am sure that I do not mistake you for someone else. Maybe, if you think I might be right partly, you could look more closely at some things you write. Maybe it's some subconscious thing. i don't know, but I certainly observe something like that.
@Regmorus send evidence if you want to prove I’m materialistic
if you wish, I could point it out every time I see it (though doing this will look stupid, because we were most certainly going to argue whether this or that is materialistic, but I can give it a try), but you yourself would be better at this job. No, I don't have a wish to prove it to you - rather I suggested it for consideration. Okay, that's just my impression, not a judgment. Like I said.
I highly agree with this
What emotional wounds? I feel like less independence the more your closer to the thing you hate the more you learn to defend from it and how they attack so you know the signs.
My dad thought I'd be a better daughter if he criticized me more so he would constantly tell me I was ugly and stupid and worthless and not charming enough or appealing enough - I became anorexic in elementary school cause my dad put too much pressure on me to be skinny and I flunked out my first attempt at university cause my parents told me i was stupid and I believed them so I never aimed for A's as a kid - it wasn't until God convinced me I was worth more that I began to get straight As - one time I got perfect As without a single A minus and one mark was 27% higher than the class average
Wow that's one of those rare parenting things where it's just psychological abuse. You don't see it often but it's hard to spot.
Very true as we live longer today the range changes and it's not the physical aspect it's also the mental aspect.
Yes, I actually assumed the whole time only the mental aspect was meant 😅
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They don’t just mean mental side of it but also the physical side other body parts are still growing.
That's has nothing to do with adulthood. We still grow even towards seniorhood. At that point you might as well day we die at adulthood. I don't listen to half the stuff these crazy people say.
What? Course it does a 5-year-old doesn't have the mentality of a 30-year-old that's why they can't consent to things.
I hate to tell you but at 5 years old I did have the mentality of a 30 year old. So please don't talk about how a child cannot consent to certain things. It just isn't wise for a child to be left to make adult choices alone. That's actually insulting a person's intelligence
How do you come by that. That's like saying "I predicted the end of the world in 10000 years my evidence is I saw it" what does a 30 year old think like? How do you even remember when you were 5 and that would be an astronomicalthing if you actually did and no one really is like that. And fyi I'm not doing that the law is doing that.
Because that's just the way how I was born and I just knew stuff like that. I just have that for my brain. That's how I know when a lot of people want to say what they say they think that nobody really knows but the problem is is that Society likes them make you dumb. Children are naturally smart. And if you don't respect how God designed them, this is why a lot of people that grow up miserable, suicidal, or turn out to be criminals if not mentally ill. This is why we got so much mental illness, because we as a society is so toxic that we stopped and natural growth that children are supposed to have. What people call adulthood today is not even adulthood. It's a chaotic system.
Look up old souls and you'll see what I mean.
What? So how can you be born with knowledge if you see the colour white how do you know the colour is called white without being taught? There's a difference between being dumb and just not knowing that's the whole point of education. While some kids will yes stuff like corporal punishment caused depression mental illness there's more to it then that some men become mentally ill because their wife divorced them or took his kids it's not just childhood adulthood is equally as bad.
Would you have to understand is that the educational system is not meant to make you smart, is meant to make you dumber.Again, it's what God decides is not what we decide. There are some like myself that are born with that knowledge, and there are those who have to learn that along the way. But again, I did know a lot of stuff, and that's why I didn't get along with a lot of people. Overall, is less to do about where exactly mental illness comes from, it's about the growth, as well as the environment. The problem is again, we live in a system, that no longer heeds to God standards. So because those standards are not being respected, like I told him that a person, now is whatever way it goes. And this is why people don't know how to raise children anymore, and why when people become adults, they don't know how to interact with other adults anymore. Or handle adult affairs. I can tell you this by experience.
Okay this makes no sense... if school makes you dumber why has society become more advanced? New technology wifi etc? I feel like your too much into god etc your looking at religion too much your not relying on your own body and mind that god gave you for a reason there's a reason you have free will religion is not always the answer it is just guidance.
No, because we are led by one or the other. Religion have nothing to do with God, and God have nothing to do with religion. We increase because the things we have down here are stolen knowledge and nobody really knows this. All of that is not new. It'sancent made to look new. It's not going to make sense to you because you have carnal knowledge, not spiritual knowledge. It's not religion. Religion is man-made.
Because school unlike in my grandmother's time became a reprogramming. That includes the things we read, watch, expose to, and eat. Why do you THINK they no longer teach practical skills for life anymore? How to raise a family, how to live your life, how to pay taxes, etc. They say parents are supposed to teach us that, but now those rights are also being taken away. People are getting lazier, unhealthy, dying earlier, thinks drugs are the answer, hardly anybody is moving out early or getting married young anymore. We're not advancing, we're regressing as a society we're humans are slowly become inhuman. That's why compassion, prayer, charity, etc is not valued anymore. We're being restructured into a system. And this is why people don't know how to survive on their own anymore.
Considering 30/100+ years is not even half of your lifetime I don’t blame you.
True I look at some guys who are like screaming at a plastic ball on grass over this bronze toy they call a trophy and I'm like what is going on? I never really liked guys as friends just I felt more feminine or maybe that was more mature and the guys were just doing stuff like kicking bins screaming over football etc all the things I never liked. Felt like I was ahead of them.
never felt like that but ok i don't like sports at all not a sports fan more of a gaming dude and well i just don't like talking to guys have always been more of a female talker to a male talker not sure what to talk about with them
amazing phrasing! "good at faking it in business or investment settings"