feminism destroyed the family and the family is what makes a country strong
I agree with absolutely everything you say, completely. Only one point I don't- Feminism isn't actually SUPPOSED to be about equality for women, it was originally designed as equality in all areas for both genders. But that's a technicality that got thrown out the window the second that the modern phase of feminism started.I loved your post, I really really did, and I agree completely with everything.
dudeman: Why? Because now that women have the ability to support themselves financially, they don't have to stay in an unhappy marriage, for example, women who are cheated on or whose spouses abuse them? I understand that divorce is quite common (not just for abused women), and that feminism has played a role in that, since now women are able to take care of themselves, but to blame the destruction of family on feminism is a fairly immature point of view. If anything, I would suggest that the
breakdown of the traditional family has more to do with the instant-gratification culture that has evolved in society. For example, knowing that divorce is an option might mean that people are less likely to make smart decisions about marriage, or they might be less likely to compromise or work through problems in their marriage. But the fact that divorce is much more common today than in the past (since in the past, you usually had no choice but to stick with the person and try to make it work)
has nothing to do with the fact that women deserve the same rights as men.
zombiefood: I do recognize that, but generally when I mention it in posts like these, I just get a bunch of ignorant men arguing with me that it's not true, since they base their entire views on feminism on radical feminism, and think that feminism is about female domination and hating men. I figured I'd leave it out so that maybe people would think about my entire post, rather than just clinging to and arguing that one point.
I agree with dudeman. Now that women have more freedom they get caught up in buying a lot of materialistic things to the point that they become gold-diggers and never end up giving birth. Also I'm sure there's wealthy women that have kids that end up leaving their kid at home with a nanny while she goes out with her friends to shop for most of the day. And they probably do that regularly.
Men and women are both caught up in materialistic things. It has nothing to do with feminism. Most women aren't "golddiggers" and most still have children.I don't even know why you're talking about rich women with nannies, because that's only small minority of women.
And they need to learn to cook in the damn kitchen instead of going to school to do sh*t.
10/10 trolling, would rage again.
That's a little harsh... although, I agree with the "old ways". I'd love to be the housewife and provide children and bring them upright. My mom was a stay-home mother, and so is my boyfriend's mother. But no. We don't need our rights taken away. Rights come from nature's god and nature's law. That goes for any individual regardless of sex or race. I think girls should understand that they have opertunities just as equal as men do, and can pursue them if they wish. BUT feminist propaganda should
flipflopsnsnow you sound like one of the only decent girls left that haven't been clouded by feminist bullsh*t. Feminists are just sluts.
**Feminist propaganda should go. It's all to promote entitlement. Same with "gay rights" and "black rights" and any other special group's "rights". We're all created equal and have equal rights under the law. No special treatment should be added. Anyone who has the mind do something should be able to do it on their own and do it justly. Man or women, black or white, straight or gay. We're all human.
And thank you Anon, I do indeed try not to be influenced by such things. I'm quite conservitive and I live that way. Woman was made to be man's companion, but don't get me wrong, we do have some power over you guys (; depending on how we use it. I still beleive a person is a person, however, and women should be respected. I dream of nothing more than to be a wife and mother, not a slut or a queen or even the "first woman president". Dear God...
Sluy-ism will end?So no more man sluts?Will these nice guys be going for girls of the same attractiveness?These nice guys guys will be making serious money to afford all these kids & a housew7fe?
Why do women need their rights taken away?So they can be subservient & not equal thus go with a guy for security and not because she's attracted to him?
It's okay for men to be man sluts. We are supposed to be. Many wives and mistresses for the win.
Man sluts don't keep women happy, though. Sluts of any kind are shallow. If you want many wives, do what you want, but there is NO WAY you can make all of them happy. We need more than sex. We need love, compassion, understanding... Some marriages with multiple spouces work out, but that's because of religous beleifs, not the wanting for women as property.
It's okay for men to be man sluts. actually not man sluts make up most of the 60% of men who cheat just like woman slut make up most of the 40% of women who cheat. Promiscuity in either gender is not cool.We are supposed to be. So are women. Since we have so few eggs & a long pregnancy period. Biologically we're suppose to have as much sex with as many high status men in order to get pregnant and then nest with one of them or a beta.
Many wives and mistresses for the win. Doesn't look like you value the old ways. Old ways = honor, integrity, morals Looks like you just want women to be pure sexually available tools at your disposal that put up with cheating. Do you condone these stay at home wives cheating? Remember the mistress an get pregnant & drain their financials just like a housewife passing off another man's kid as hubby's.
A cheating housewife needs a slap from her drunken owner.
your a pussy. why are you anon sweetheart you sure talk like you have balls. no woman wants a coward. I have no prob being a stay at home mom as long as the dude has a f***in job and suports us... but most pathetic guys these days are too f***in lazy becuase of there vid games and pot
Guys should be able to be lazy and still have many wives and mistresses. That is what communism is for.
theyll treat us like second class citizens. they already do
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Apparently there's not enough learning girls aren't playthings for men.How does this correlate to destroying civilization?Patriarchy still reigns hence why the boys still need to be taught not to touch.
Did you read the whole thing? If not I suggest you do.
1. Yeah she had sh*tty friends.Guys use women for superficial reasons too & their way of using them for amusement is sexual2. She had sh*tty datesMen manipulate, cheat, lie, are horror stories themselves, and like her dates can't commit.That's bad dating not women.3. She met sh*tty peopleMen lie, cheat, break promises too.Odd that ALL her boyfriend troubles were her having too high expectations. That says more about her than men.
link sometimes it goes too far
Sexual assault is sexual assault.I'm pretty sure someone taught those boys to keep their hands to themselves.I'm sure you'd be in an outcry if little girls decided to start kicking little boys crotches.
I think feminism isn't still making enough noise to matter. They already damaged a lot of things and people just ignore the bad things that feminism has done and keep their anger about it inside.
LOL, irykirykMm, well, I dunno. I don't think Feminism did anything wrong, at all. But, I think its post-victory abuse and corruption did a lot of bad. Still, nowdays none of that's relevant unless your really caught up in it, which I don't have the time to be
Although, on topic of paragraph three, I think this girl is somewhat ignoring entirely the fact that up until various movements that took place around the rise of feminism, that it was teachers themselves, all male, beating and groping their students, never mind what older boys did outside remits of education.
Men have always been the 'rulers'? News to me.
so you're saying that women had the power through history? lolololol you so crazy
Except for a few men running government and business, women have dominated society through control of the family.
a FEW? pretty much all power positions were taken by men (not all,but most) family control-women never made men do something they didn't want to,men did have that control over women,all women controled is the washing up! we can go along with the ''oh men are the head but women are the neck'' joke,but that's what it is,a joke.men have always done what they wanted to
We were doing pretty good until around the turn of the centuryWhich sort of contradicts your argument, although I agree with you, LOL. I mean, although I don't like the 'now its our turn' argument, I agree with you
i didn't say ''it's our turn''! I'm for people doing whateverthef*** they want to,i don't think anybody should have power over anyones life,i'm just saying that well,men aren't doing so well so they shouldn't be talking badly about feminists,we're all failing equally IMO
Ohh, alright. I know you didn't say 'its our turn', what I meant was your argument seemed to have its ties in the 'x years of repression women deserve' lah-de-dah argument that's often brought up - although obviously, it wasn't. You know... I'm agreeing with you, man
I woudn't deny that in the past but what do you mean "were not doing well"? Can you name any field/job/place in society were men are outpacing women? Women are doing better than men at almost absolutely everything.
oh please,men get all the jobs,and get better pay checks.men are more likely to get jobs,cause they don't have boobs,even a woman won't hire a woman cause they think they'll be a distraction,all cause men treat women as sex objects.