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Sometimes though people genuinley feel like its the only option open to them
And what about everyone else? Their friends, family. Or what about hanging through one more day. And then another one. I have been suicidal, too, I attempted once. I am so glad I failed. Seeing my parents hover over me in tears as I was hooked to machines was the most traumatising thing. Life is still not easy but I am grateful for everything.
I understand your strong resolve i have also been that low. My brother wasn't as fortunate as me thoughI can understand why he felt like it was his only option, he was going to be on meds for the rest of his life, unlikley to be able to hold down a proper job and would most likley need around the clock care once he got past 50He had mild autism, anxiety issues and depressionI can understand why people would feel angry and almost disapointed in the people that take their own lives. But as i mentiones before some people whole heartingly believe that this is the only way they can be rid of the pain and be for lack of a better phrase 'at peace'He was in therapy i just think he lost his willpower and unfortaunley that is one of the few things that comes mainly from oneself
I know. I remember I lose my job and everybody was going in on me about how lazy I was and get a new job. I was looking for a job. It's not like I was just sitting on my ass doing nothing. I was doing something. It's not like I didn't try. The only place I could of gone to was a homeless shelter and even then it's still pretty terrible. Then I found out that my credit was too bad to even rent an apartment if I could make enough money freelancing. I literally couldn't find anything and no one to help me. And I know that people would consider me lazy and not doing enough to at least protect my little sister but when you're broke and need somewhere safe to go right away, most people are only for themselves and aren't interested in helping young folks like myself. Being black just made it worse
Wanting people to keep suffering so it'll hurt you less is more selfish to me
The pain does stop, their pain stops. Geez, you sound selfish yourself.Quite the paradox.
@Rangers In today’s world, help, medications etc etc are available. If you’re so privileged to be given a life to, I’d say the least you should do is hold onto it. I think you’re being very blind with that comment. You’re sitting here with internet, warm food on your table and a bed to sleep in. There are people around with a lot less and are still more grateful than that. If I am selfish for thinking about the bigger picture, so be it. But you’re just ungrateful and entitled. @Don-_-Don Please try not to respond to my opinions, sorry to be blunt but you give me a headache whenever you do.
If you don't like it then block me, that seems to be what people do when they're annoyed by what other people say.
Besides that, I will reply to any comment you make if I desire it, it's not like I'm harassing you.
@Don-_-Don At least make sense in that case. I call something "selfish", you say no, and then prove my point by saying that it's about them and them only. It's just weird and I honestly don't know what to tell you lol.
@Marilynjuana, alright I'll elaborate.Because this is something I've been pondering on for a while.I expect you to actually respond since I'm bothering to give you a through explanation.
@Tomsta I am terribly sorry for your brother, I genuinely feel for you. My cousin has severe autism and I am quite aware what it's like. It's heartbreaking when people reach their breaking point, but I think that's where perspective, different approaches and hope come in. I believe the act itself is selfish, not necessarily the person behind it. It's a difficult topic and people own all kinds of opinions, but if I were to think about attempting again, God I could never do it to my family.
@Don-_-Don Sorry but you get a block just for being that cocky and entitled. I find it really annoying.
@nami222 You have issues :') Reported.
Wtf? I reported her too, kinda ironic how she's calling you a coward for not insulting her to her face while she throws 50 different insults into a response with an account with no avatar😂
@MarilynjuanaI could never do that to ky family either, like you said we all have opinions i personally dont think its selfish. However i do feel disapointed that they didn't fight more. Im an avid believer of tough loveSometime we need that kick up the arse to get us to actually change ourselves, however this kind of change is the hardest because they have to want to change and become better
@Rangers The entire post is very ironic indeed. :’) Good thing I find people speaking out of their arse amusing, if anything. My issue is that there are people here who won’t take it with a twist of humour.
@Tomsta I’m very grateful you didn’t get angry with me. This topic is very difficult and painful, and no matter what anyone says, I truly feel for anyone who is familiar with suicide in one way or another. When I lost my father, I figured that if I don’t toughen up then life will swallow me whole without second thought. You, too, have your reasons for the opinions you hold today. And that’s perfectly fine. Minds don’t always think alike, but I truly respect anyone who’s willing to simply be decent about it. I know I come off as rather blunt sometimes but, well, I’m terrible at putting my thoughts into words..
Unless someone is being totally dissmissive or make distastful jokes or pranks (yes i once knew someone who prank a friend that they committed suicide) i generally dont get to angry
@Marilynjuana same here, it was a girl who got beaten up by her brothers every single day eversince their mom died in a car accident. The other was a former classmate of mine who told me he wished he did better in school instead of ending up in a bad job. 3 months later I got shocked by the message of his suicide.