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We also dont see hairy women on magazines
Hair can be managed with relative ease
I dont understand your point
@hi_it_is_me123 alright so let’s just shave the fat guy. Will that suddenly make him attractive?
I can't, I'm not 6' tall and hung
Being 6 feet tall and hung is not supposed to be perfect lol. Every size is appreciated
That's a good joke
The only Male bodies that are acceptable are bodies between that of an Olympic swimmer and jason momoa
🤦♀️ you can keep thinking that way and have low confidence for life. But you are definitely more attractive when you are confident in who you are. A 6' guy whos hung and not very confident is less attractive than a 5' 6 guy not so hung but very happy and confident with himself. Not every person likes the same type. I dont even prefer 6' guys or muscley guys. Anyways, I wish you the best in accepting yourself and have a good day.
A 6' hung guy has no reason to not have confidence. I will keep thinking that way, there's no such thing as a big dick joke
All small dick jokes are based around humiliation
I know plenty of 6'people who are supposedly hung with low confidence. Nobody is perfect, everyone has imperfections that they're not proud of. But thats what makes it special where nobody is perfect or the same. So you should be proud of your distinct characteristics. Everyone jokes about every part of the body. I know plenty of girls who don't like big dicks too. So yeah. Stop being so conscious of that.
Well at least they can work on whatever else is bothering them, and they have two of the obvious traits women like that you can't do anything about. True no one is perfect, but others are more valued and the rest of us aren't. Sure other body parts are joked about, but none compare to the humiliation jokes concerning a man with a small penis
If a 6' hung man has some genetically imperfect thing per say, they can't work on it. Like you couldn't work on height or size.
It wouldn't matter in the long run. A 6' hung guy with a genetic imperfection is going to get more interest than a 5'6 small guy
Lol I like how so in denial you are. I just told you I dont like 6' guys and I know other girls don't too
I'm not in denial, I just dont but bs
The vast majority of women want a tall, in shape, hung guy
Lol ok go ahead and be bitter for the rest of life. 🙂
That's ok with me, at least my horrible genetics end here
I did a quick survey on which guy women would want, guess who wins
Surveys are always bias, if sample size too small = inaccurate. The type of sampling affects accuracy too. If people volunteer to do it, bias already.
Yep, just like what women find attractive, so it works out
And I dont really care anymore, I made the decision to stop dating years ago, there's no point when you're inferior in every way... I just hate that its appropriate for people to make fun at the expense of men's bodies while every woman's body is considered perfect
Men are perfect too lol
All are my brother.
Don't call me brother, we don't know each other like that. Only rich, tall, and hung men are valued. The rest of us aren't
We all brothers and sisters coming from the same place. lol Anyways, you see lots of short men who aren't rich with nice ladies. I mean I'm done arguing with you. idc if you keep wanting to think that. Your freedom to do so, just want you to hold your head up higher and realize appearance isn't everything.
Yes, women take those men because they dont have the option to get the men they actually value. No we aren't all brothers and sisters, I have one of each and I dont care about any others. I'm not allowed to hold my head higher, I'm inferior
ur funny. i guess growing up and the girls making fun of me bc i wasn't athletic enough, they were just part of my mind
yeah and who dafuk is 6 feet tall and not confident?
''I know plenty of 6'people who are supposedly hung with low confidence'' Hah
Lol, I know right
''I know plenty of girls who don't like big dicks too'' ok how old are u? ur not 21
dont bother bout her, she's probably a kid trying to apear nice online, but i do in fact believe there are people that can get along with u dude, not only that, but dating a woman that is like a super model doesn't seem like a dream at least to me, u have to constantly pumper her up like she's special, focus on urself and most importantyl on ur hobbies, and just a tip, focus on only searching hobby related stuff ( positive stuff ) cause i used to be mad about different stuff too in the past and people that i met, but thats why u shouldn't give them credit
I'm 21 lol check my id 😂 you ever notice some 6' guys slouching because they're not confident about their height. You ever notice so many forums where guys ask if my dick is big enough? And then girls have to explain over and over again that size dont matter much, it's about the motion of the ocean. Lol I just hate when people think they're inferior for no good reason. Like afellowweeb said there will be people who will like you for you, so that's all I wanted you to know. Lol
Yeah... I dont buy everything he said, that part included
Lol @AFellowWeeb he don't even trust you either so we're even. This guy gonna stay in his pessimistic world now
No, I'm realistic. He might have given a more direct and truthful answer, he still dressed it up a bit with "the nice things to say"
Or he's talking about only having guy friends
Ya with being "realistic" you are your own worst critic. Typically you judge yourself more harshly than others would perceive you. So be careful with that and good luck on your journey to finding and discovering what you need and want!
@cherryblossomXD but thats the thing, i get his pain, girls dont know how hard it actually is to be a guy, everything u do if ure a guy, u receive no validation, doesn't matter if u are the biggest try harder, there is even a youtuber called penquinz0 or cr1tikal or greaseball now, the reason why he still uses beard, is bc one girl told him he looked good when he was younger, u girls receive validation all the time, we dont, thats why every single compkliment any normal guy receives is extremelly impactful, just look at ur profile, u have way more followers than the ones u follow, just bc u were born with a vagina, and the fact we ( men ) still have to take slaps on our faces all the time about feminism, and how bad we are as humans makes us feeling even more down, even if we didn't do anything wrong
I understand that there are hardships in being any gender. Not trying to downplay that men don't feel bad things either. I acknowledge the fact men don't get compliments as much or barely at all and they're forced to keep in their emotions. It sucks honestly, there are double standards and gender norms still holding us all back. I don't know why even though girls tend to receive more validation, plenty are still self-concious and have low self-esteem. Maybe because we are so used to it, that it doesn't really phase us too much when we get a compliment. So it all comes down to how we view ourselves and the power in us to feel better about ourselves.
I prefer harsh truths to happy lies. I'm planning on surgery anyway
'' I don't know why even though girls tend to receive more validation''boys dont crybe nice to girls, u have to protect themgirls are nice, be nice to themwhen ur a girl: be yourselflove urselfu will find the perfect boy for u, cause a real man aproaches u first get now why feminism is bs?
Eh, feminism has some merit, the part of feminism that attacks anything men do is a bit extreme and unnecessary. Women just honestly dont care about average and less than average men
I like how you guys like to twist everything I say into a negative light. Its funny. I'm just trying to come to common ground here lol And I dont think you should get surgery unless its necessary, you might regret it.
That's because our experiences with women is negative because we dont meet certain standards. And we can't even voice any concerns about struggling to date because we're immediately labeled as incels, losers, etc. Yet when women have difficulty dating, they get support. Surgery is my only option, there are no natural ways to get taller or bigger
Yeah thats true. I'll give you that. But like I said surgery is really risky and might turn out bad. It might not even increase your chances to attract people more than now. So waste of money. Think about what you can improve from inside and outside naturally before something this big.
If the surgery turns out bad, I go to plan b, that's all. I lost weight, tried new hobbies, opened myself up to dating, and nothing changes. Its actually got worse because I now had these false hopes
when i meant hobbies i meant focus on urself, not to impress anyone
You can focus on hobbies all you like, eventually you want company
Yeah I agree focus on yourself man. Bring out the best you you can be. There will be many rejections in life, but you'll never know what you could be if you didn't try again.
nah bruh u dont need company to live, i actually like a calm life, women only want shit 'adventures' or some deviant bs in the bedroom that they saw on porn or their friends told them, then label us as the weirdos
I will try again, after surgery, after I fix the things wrong with me because there's no such thing as acceptance when it comes to men like me
I agree you dont need company, you can live alone and be satisfied with it. Be able to do your own shit without anyone tying you down. For real, you want to do surgery just for a woman? When women can be pretty lame. People in general can be lame but we just put up with it. I dont think I want shit adventures though, I just want to travel with a lover and have vanilla sex in my house. Lol
i mean yeah... u dont even value urself and ure an hypocrite, time to block me i guess? go head I've saw exaclly what i wanted tbh
I dont block anyone tbh. I dont really care. You're pretty close minded tbh. People are more complicated than black and white.
Ok, so you say someone doesn't need company to live a good life, yet you want to travel with a lover and have vanilla sex in your house. Seems like company to me, but I get it, because I'm a lesser being, I shouldn't have those hopes
Its completely fine for women to get surgery, why can't a guy do the same
I just said that was a wish, just like you wish to have someone too. But if I end up not finding anyone, then I'm fine being with myself. Vibing with myself. That's all lol I never said it wasn't fine to get surgery. If you were a girl telling me you wanted surgery, I would tell her the exact same thing that I did to you about it being a risky surgery and to really think about it carefully.
Women have this outlook because it's not something they really have to deal with. The amount of interest women get assures them that, more than likely, they'll find someone. So its nothing for them to worry about, it's like a rich person saying they can live without their luxuries, but let everything fall apart and see them struggle just like the rest
Okay I concede. I have a long time ago before afellowweeb came here to stir it up. I just want to say good luck. You can take that as genuine as you want and I won't judge you anymore. ✌
Luck has nothing to do with anything, you either have it or you dont, especially as a guy. I appreciate your word though, as I know they come from a good place, they just aren't realistic for my situation. Plus I'm doing the surgery for myself as well
I guess I totally missed the disability part of the movement. I've only ever seen it for the fat and tattooed
Stop fat shaming. Use medical terms such as obesity/overweight. Calling people land whale dont help them. Bullying like that is not solution. That is like that when you call short men "manlets"
In western countries men are more obese than women
@hi_it_is_me123 Thank you for illustrating my point! I told the dude he needs to get with the woke program!
Why do i get dislikes for no reason?
Delusional big girls didn’t like your answer. They want to see more big girls on the cover cosmopolitan.
Oh... i did not judge, shame on or bully them. I just want them to be healthy😔😅 as i said i am against fat-shaming but promoting obesity is not a good thing since it is very unhealthy and can even kill you. I am sorry if I offend anyone.
You both are right but I would direct you to a film made in Latin America in the middle of the 2000's with the title: "Real women have curves".Now let me be perfectly clear: the line between curvy women and obese is not a line at all!The women Robert Crumb celebrates would never be in the cover of any magazine of that kind, and would be considered grotesque.They are anything but! Or crazy exploitation... Real women have curves - stop making them feel they should edit, censor or Photoshop themselves as punishmentThey never should have been tried by society in the first place, is what I add to what you already wrote.
No it’s not. It’s really meant for fat women who are depressed about not getting attention.
@guesswhoseback Yes and I added guys to that because I keep hearing talk lately about "dad bods" being sexy. Those are overweight/chubby guys.
Well fat/chubby guys still have a chance with women if they have a good sense humor, make good money, etc. The late Chris Farley was dating a model in his heyday. I don’t know if you ever seen the comedy “tommy boy” but the beautiful woman who jumps in the motel pool naked was Chris Farley’s girlfriend. Fat guys have a chance if they can knock it out of the park in other parts of their lives. This is much much tougher heavy girls. Not fair in some many ways I admit. But it has to do with how men’s vs woman’s brains are wired. Subconsciously men see overweight women as less fertile.
*chris farley’s real life girlfriend.
No it's for both genders! Woman care.
I agree, I’m just speaking on how society sees it.
Why would people downvote this? Y’all love body shaming men?
It kind of is...
I guess because women tend to complain more and openly criticize their body one would think that woman are more in the focus of body positivity. However the body positive movement itself is not gender exclusive. Example being rihannas plus sizes male models for her underwear brand.
Oh, you mean the dad bod that has always been viewed as attractive lol
When she has short male models, and its actually about representation, not sales, then I'll buy that angle
Well its the same for women. I dont really see your point... Seems like you have already made up your mind in regards to your question. If you want to feel attacked by body positivity do so. I am just saying that the majority of body positivity advocates would say it is for both genders.
My point is that it isn't, while yes bigger women are used to sell product, they are also described as beautiful, strong. The chubby guys are just chubby. I dont feel attacked, just pointing out the double standard. Also, jokes concerning a woman's body are seen as bad these days, but last time I checked its perfectly acceptable to make fun of a man's size below the belt. Let a guy make fun of how loose a girl is and just witness the mutiny that follows
You just said yourself dad bods aka. chubby guys are considered attractive. Anyways we seem to be different opinions in my book body positivity is for both genders.