I'm short, ugly, no status, no money, shit hair line and so on. It's obvious that I was the ugly loser in middle school. I was the fucking nobody in high school. I still am the ugly fucking loser as an adult.
I try dressing better, speaking better, being more positive having more confidence but nothing works. How come many people can't accept that genetics, wealth and status play a major role in attraction and opportunity. A hot or at least middle attractive person will always be treated better then me. This means they're born into having natural confidence.
It just fucking hurts that I can't speak about it without other guys trashing me or females telling me to stop complaining. Basically it's average to highly attractive people telling me an ugly goblin that life gets better and stop bitching.
Yes, it's the attractive and average people like this that tell me to stop crying about things. They very people that never suffered like me. The very people that will never have my problems. GagersTruth is if you are a fucking ugly short loser like me then ALL women will reject you. That's just the facts.
Now this is the part where the popular attractive Gagers tell me to stop bitching. Stop crying. stop complaining.GagersIn the end I'm just an incel. I didn't ask to be born a goblin. I didn't ask to be born ugly.Me
Its all in your head brother. You make me sad cause I have been hard on myself.
What you believe about yourself is what other people are going to see. I know this is much easier said than done I went through most of my life with no confidence or very little. But now I'm Papa boss. But it's all just a show but people buy it and I'm not talking about just on the internet. But in real life I had to do it a different way. The silver tongue for me only translates onto the paper. I ain't that a bitch for me
Immerse yourself in knowledge. There's one thing about learning if you don't like what it is you're reading or you're learning he's not going to retain it. Find things you're interested in and learn those things. People are impressed by knowledge very impressed by knowledge gives you an upper hand
. Believe in yourself. I'm the biggest fucking loser in the world. im a brat , a mama's boy but Mom is gone. I am the brat Prince...
make up cool names for yourself.. go get a bunch of tattoos and talk about systemic racism blow hot air up people's asses. You can do this
you probably know all this. I'm probably not telling you anything you don't know.. it's not about looks really isn't.. they do play a play a part but I've known some guys that would have been like considered really good-looking they just didn't have it.
Be glad you're not a girl they have a whole lot of a hell of a time keeping up body image and looks at all that. Girls are cool guy like that, they will like ugly guys like me. This is long as you can make them laugh and make them feel safe. You can have all the trim you like
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ShadezMcgee | 361 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.
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4 mo
Bro, I am average looking (receding hairline and baby face), stand at 5'8" but in good shape and have dog shit fashion sense. I have a girlfriend and have pulled women that I never thought would give me the time of day.
It's all about mindset and knowing your worth and boundaries. You come off very cynical, pessimistic, and toxic which is repulsive to both men and women.
If you are an incel, at least you admit it, but at least have the awareness you all claim to have to look in and see the root cause of your problems and find out how to better yourself. You'd be surprised at what changes will come your way. If you keep acting like this, you will continue to be bashed because you are letting them do that to you instead of surrounding yourself with people who are positive and successful that can make you the best version of yourself through encouragement, respect and love.
You have two options, my guy. Suck it up and face your demons and conquer your limiting beliefs, or continue to sulk about how you were destined from birth to be a "loser" a "virgin" an "incel". Only your mind is telling you that.
Source: recovering nice guy and could've been considered incel.
Oh you're so right you got it don't let them see you sweat don't let them know your weaknesses they will use that against you people are rotten bad. You have to play the power game with them the way the world is a Will To Power and nothing besides your your comments good you know what's up. What he's doing right here is the worst thing he could do. He won't find a girl for you her reading this. Women are far too superficial for that. I'm just kidding gals.
But he might listen to some of us bolt throwers. so you can't say it's a total loss but I got your point. Dont do it all the time.
you make me remember one of my friends who was suffering like you, he is saying the same words when i try to advise him, may my words will be repeated for you but excuse me for that because as you said no one will know how much you suffered, my friend is telling me that he will never get a girlfriend in his life because he is short and ugly, but when we walk together i show him how many ugly and unwell educated assholes has a nice girlfriend because he has a high ego and self confidence, and i'm telling him that he is 1000 times better than them and has nice opportunities if he forgets what he complains about, so what i want to say you should believe in yourself more, i know it's not easy but do you best.
In the end you deal with the cards the dealer has dealt you, in this case the dealer being life. You've been dealt a shit hand whilst someone else has scored blackjack with an ace and a 10 card at the very start of their life.
I think encouraging people to voice their frustrations in life is a good thing, telling people to shut up about it and stop being a "bitch" just leads them to bottle up that frustration
This also comes into the fact that the people you mention will never experience what you experience, so they can never truly empathise with your position, average men nowadays perhaps can, but attractive people can never understand what it is like to be "on the side" of life unless they have close friends in that position.
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IAMNathanael | 797 opinions shared on Society & Politics topic.
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You're kind of bashing yourself, too. How people treat you might have some to do with how you carry yourself. Though, its still no reason to treat anyone poorly. There is no reason.
You know you are absolutely right. I think I've argued with you on another post LOL but on this when you're right it's all in your head. You can make yourself attractive no matter how you look. Look at Biggie Smalls for example maybe not the best example but look at all he accomplished. I was so insecure when I was his age I would have never been able to pull that off
Did you just read that and just call him a loser? Is that your response I hope to God not cuz you got a way bigger problem than he does that's the way you responded to his post? Tell me im wrong.
Cuz that would mean you got cold heart nobody likes that something you can't change very easily. You see what is going to happen is. That twenty-year-old going to turn into a 30 year old and so on and one day you'll be climbing up around 50. But you know there's always cats
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