Would you rather "not offend/not or hurt his/her feelings" or "tell the truth"?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Tell the truth... The truth may hurt sometimes, but lies will always hurt.
Even little white lies meant not to hurt, because that shows either a lack of trust in the person or the relationship to not have just been truthful... I hate when someone lies and then tries to justify it by saying they thought you couldn't handle the truth. But how do they know that, when they didn't give you that chance?
When usually it's more because they don't want to face the consequences of what some truths might bring.
Just because someone tells the truth about cheating, doesn't mean you shouldn't face any consequences for that. I'll respect someone's honesty, but that don't mean I'd stay with them, just because they were honest about it

[purplepoppy]

It's not up to us to decide whats best for other people and if you offend people you just isolate yourself. Its better to address the root of the problem delicately rather than by just speaking your mind

[BCA6010]

Truth 100% of the time.

I don't give a shit about somebody's feelings when they come at the expense of the truth. To do the opposite would be to willingly lie to someone who you presumably care about if their emotions matter to you, and a relationship built on lies is not long for the world anyway.

[watrewks]

I’ve become really good at letting people down easily. I find that it’s always necessary to tell the truth, but you can always be tactful in your presentation. Also, some people may not necessarily need to know the truth and withholding information isn’t the same as lying.

[ShadezMcgee]

Nothing good comes not telling the truth or withholding it. The fallout tends to be much worse than telling the truth in the first place.

Being authentic and transparent is always best, even if it fucking sucks.

[jshm2]

Neither.

Only a daft, self righteous, prick would try for the "it's for their own good" argument.

If you really cared, half as much as you claim, you would have been there a lot sooner.

[JayC23]

If you don’t tell guys the truth they will believe their is a chance and still follow you and try and be with you. If you do this then they will think you lead them on and we’re manipulative and it’ll get worse. You just have to be honest but maybe not be an ass about it

[SarcasticNagham]

Well nothing stays hidden forever and telling the truth gives you the option of deciding when and where is the good time and place to tell but if you decide to hide the truth it will just suddenly blow up in your face. Also everyone hates lying so put yourself in the person's place and imagine how you would feel if you got lied to.🤔🤔🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[MissDawn7961]

I tell the truth ! when some 1 asks me something then I say to them - do U want my honest opinion - and if they say YES or nod yes then I give it to them , like it or not ! thanks

[Alyssa11]

This is a weak trait i have but I sometimes end up not telling the truth because i don’t want to hurt a persons feelings.

[DWornock]

There may be cases where it is otherwise, but usually it is best to tell a white lie. When a woman ask, "Do you think I'm fat" she already knows that she is fat. She just wants you to tell her that she is not.

[ManHater]

Depends if he or she is a democrat. If its a democrat tell the lie, pull the wool over the eyes like all democrats and liberals do. Live a lie in happy dream land. Rather take the red pill and show them how life really is. Hard and cruel.

[sheikalana]

I'd rather tell the truth in a polite way without being a jerk.

[boggboss]

Depends on eh situation sometimes things don't need to be said but for the most part the world dont pull its punches so why would i

[Inquisitive3]

Tell the truth. I just did and lost a 'friend'. Oh well, that's the it goes.

[scorpy04]

A relationship should be built on honesty not on lies Once the lies have begun the trust is lost and will soon destroy any type of relationship

[BrownBratzDoll]

Truth will get u black balled. Just lie it gets u further

[CallMeJean]

I always go for the truth, but I try to pick out the right moment. So I might keep something for a few hours or days until I find my moment where someone's more approachable.

[Rangers]

Of course tell the truth, fuck how it makes you feel, I don't care

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Tell the truth, but not in a way where you need to be a jerk about it.

[Anonymous]

I tell the truth and do what’s hardest for me but better for them because that’s what I would want.

[OddBeMe]

Im for the truth, but also for building up confidence with truth.

[Guanfei]

Tell the truth.
Seems like offending someone has become the biggest crime nowadays.

[here_is_your_guy]

I depends. I'll hide unimportant things but I will tell the truth otherwise.

[SlightlyEccentric]

I'll tell the truth no matter what

[tartaarsaus]

Depends on the person and what it’s about

[Anonymous]

Depends on what it’s about.

[Imuglyandiknowit]

tell the truth