Is femininity bad?

Being a femmine women seems wrong and even gross to me. I mean, I want to look femmine and girly but the idea of having femmine personality traits/ mannerisms I feel like would just turn men away because they'd view me as weak and needy. Which is turnoff.

Men want women who are strong, tough, and career driven who are also great in the bedroom the first time. To top that off, men being femmine is viewed as a terrible thing and a shane on society so... yeah.

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