Do you believe people can control who they find attractive?

[MCheetah]

To an extent, yes. I don't think you can control your sexuality. But you can control whether or not you find certain races of people attractive, certain heights of people, or other very superficial things.

[slatyb]

Not really, but when we know people better, we can look beyond their physical traits. There are women that did not intitally find attractive that became more attractive to me as I got to know them.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

To some extent. But for the most part it's instinctual. You can however control how you behave.

[Anonymous]

No, I found myself hating some women but still found them attractive, was really weird when one of them felt my boner at a work party... but yeah life goes on my body sometimes has a mind of his own.

[Vegasrunner]

No. Attraction is not a choice.

[Anonymous]

Only to a small degree. There are plenty of women I find annoying who still give me a boner if I think about them.

[OddBeMe]

No…I think it’s much more “Freudian”.

[boggboss]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Not much