I understand what you are saying. My family is guilty of that :( , I wish you good luck :D
Thanks :) it's OK, I'd probably do it too.
I think it is pretty straightforward, I mean, what are the disadvantages/advantages you face by being in your social class? ex: if you are rich, you live in a bubble without knowing how the real world works. You might be restricted to do many things. You might be expected to do this and that, etc.
I wouldn't say I live in a bubble. But I pretty much pay for everything I get except my car and stuff and I can do pretty much anything around the house. I don't think there are many disadvantages to my "social class". Even though I live pretty well not that well but OK, my parents taught me at a young age to do things for myself and earn everything I get and not be spoiled.
I'm trapped in a really small social bubble. Now I am going to slowly step out from it and try to do some things on my own. Since I've been inside this bubble since forever, I'm very clueless about most things D:.
ya id actually RATHER be upper middle than upperclass due to that bubble. but to be real, you probably will do just fine being clueless. 1 cause its more acceptable for a girl and 2 cause your parents will almost always be able to fix your mistakes
I know, and everything you are saying is true. Example, today I signed some insurance my parents got for me, it basically takes care of me until I die. Today my parents said, even if you fail, you can just come to us and be our daughter. Another thing, my parents put a house under my name at 18, and if I needed, they would give me another piece of land. You see, I don't like these kind of things, well I do, but no...It's like I don't deserve so much, it's kinda wrong...idk..
well that says something about your character, you are rich but not spoiled (doesn't seem) and that's really all anyone can ask. you realize what you have and don't take it for granted. as long as money isn't making you who you are or determining who you hang out with I would have no problem hanging out with someone in that social bubble haha
I actually try not to depend so much on money. I don't buy expensive clothing and I try to limit my spending to the maximum. I'm not dumb at all, but I'm very clueless in things like...Idk how to cross the road, I don't know how to do chores, things related to it -.- I am trying to do some things, but other things I feel repulsed to do... which pisses me off because it just demonstrates how spoiled I am -.- Somehow I feel like it's wrong to live the way I am, like I need to be more independent
well really the way you are/think seems pretty ideal to me haha. I mean you are socially aware but you can afford to have people do the stuff that repulses you. don't you think that's what a guy would want most, not cause a real man would want your money but because if you both need to work very little, that's more time you can spend together doing what you really love to do? plus you have the ability to help those who need it
Actually I wouldn't marry a man who earns very little. In evolution, animals mate with someone who can provide the best genes for survival. If you relate it to humans, opportunities, luxury, comfort can be somewhat related to money. Therefore, the more money he can make, the better survivor he is, and the better genes he has. Needless to say, it is also drilled in our heads to find the best mate or genes. (PS: I'm a workaholic)
haha I was saying by choice, but that's interesting...
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