I also have a bit of a complex on sites like these. My social skills are way better than my typing shit! Writing is a disingenuous representation of who am I. It always will be no matter how hard I try because I am crippled here. My mastery is body language, both reading and using my own to communicate.
In my case, I am so practiced at communicating so much with the way I look at someone else or stand or sit next to them. Words mean very little to me. They're just yadayada for the most part. I put secondary emphasis on words exchanged and primary emphasis on tone of voice, body language, things of this sort. It might be a habit I picked up traveling a lot. But the words are always secondary, and mediums like phone calls and text make the words primary. With phone calls, I can at least detect the tone of voice but it's really crippling without seeing their body language or showing them my own. My charm drops to almost zero, and I have a whole lot more in person.
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