Why can't I get over him? Why so I still like him??
Time. That's all that will help. That or another distraction, but when that guy leaves the picture, you may be left thinking about the original man in question. Just give it time and you will be... Break Up & Divorce
Have any of you guys encountered this type of girl yet?
Girls go for the "jerks" because a lot of us (speaking for myself - a girl similar to what you described above - except I can do things on my own) like assertive men. Now I don't want to be... Girl's Behavior