Caren-Field
Caren-Field
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Are You Interrupting?

People interrupt way too frequently. Men and women both do it; it may be in different ways, at different times, and for different reasons, but we all interrupt. Interrupting might just be the biggest barrier to communication because when an interruption happens, communication stops;... Relationships

Is Being Right Worth It?

People love being right. Anytime we get the chance to be right we seem to take it. Being right, and its corollary, making someone else wrong, is like an addiction. It's as bad for us as smoking, over-eating, gambling, or any fill-in-the-blank vice; you know it's not good for you, but you like... Relationships

Recent Questions

Girls: How worried are you about coming across as "needy" ?

How worried are you to be seen as "needy?" What do you think about coming across as needy to the opposite sex? Is it something you're concerned about? Is it something you try to avoid? Does it ever cross your mind? What are some of the things you've done (or do) to avoid being seen as needy?... Relationships

Guys: How worried are you about coming across as "the creepy guy" ?

How worried are you to be seen as "the creepy guy?" What do you think about coming across as a creep to the opposite sex? Is it something you're concerned about? Is it something you try to avoid? Does it ever cross your mind? Have you ever sensed that someone thought you were a creep? Has... Relationships

Are you intimidated by a strong and successful woman?

Girls often complain that men are "intimidated" by strong, successful women... Guys: Are you? Why or why not? Relationships

Where have you SQUINTED in past relationships?

We SQUINT when we overlook red flags and problems, when we pretend things are ok when they're not ok, when we put up with behaviors we normally wouldn't tolerate, when we compromise our principles (or our standards) in the hopes that the relationship will work out. Everything looks good if you... Relationships

What are the "job descriptions" that come with the title Boyfriend?

While it's not pretty, we do have expectations about what a Boyfriend is "supposed" to do. Boyfriends have a different role than a Casual Date, or Fiance, or Husband does... For instance: Casual Date would not be expected to come to your family reunion. And while Boyfriend *might* be able to... Relationships

Which do you prefer: Dating for Fun or Dating for Commitment?

It seems there are two camps of people, those who date for fun and those who date for commitment. Which one are you? Relationships

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