DeanW
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How to get my confidence and self esteem back?

The irony is that to get confidence and comfort you have to become more comfortable with the queasy sense that there is something wrong with you, your life, your choices and your future. What... Girl's Behavior

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Anonymous
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Emotional Triggers? Help.

There's a couple of elements here to consider. One is that in order to reduce the power of those feelings you have to establish a practice that strengthens your confidence and inner calm. Some... Relationships

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Anonymous
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Your opinion on suicide.

I think it's hard to understand the immensity of death. As Pema Chodron says, we all know we're going to die, but it's definitely later. I don't think suicidal people can see the full impact their... Guy's Behavior

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Anonymous
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Is it unusual to not have had a girlfriend by the end of high school?

No worries - college experiences are a better measure. High schools can be small and basically you've got the same set of people, less variety and it's harder to meet good matches. It suggests... Society & Politics

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stevo
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Do you think pictures do you justice?

Depends on the photographer. Most times I cringe when I see photos of me, but when they're taken by pros - or at least someone with a lot of skill - they turn out well. Flirting

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Jazzygirl3356
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If lots of people think of you as unattractive does that mean it's true ?

It depends on why they find you less attractive. If it's because you aren't as physically attractive as some other girls, then whether you have less quality or get less out of life will depend on... Fashion & Beauty

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Miss_Desirae
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Have you ever read a book that repulsed you or made you feel sick?

"A Long Way Gone" by Ishmael Beah. I was very interested in this tragic tale, but got a sinking, then sickening, sense that it was BS. As the book goes on and on it features sketchy details, huge... Flirting

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Anonymous
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I'm afraid of talking to people...

Have you considered training in karate or another martial art? They can be great for developing self confidence and self defense skills, so you can feel comfortable standing up for yourself.... Guy's Behavior

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Anonymous
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Girls: Do you get hornier during your period?

Hard to say. Both teams seem weaker to me than the usual finalists. Lakers emerged from an old (Spurs/Mavs), injured (Houston/Spurs), and dumb (Denver/Jazz) west, while Orlando profited from KG... Sexual Health

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TexPlayboy
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How long does a relationship have to last to be considered successful?

I don't have a number in mind, but I do think it's an interesting question. A lot of our mental anguish comes from the separation of what is and what we want things to be. In this case you raise... Relationships

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Anonymous
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Why does my crush only talk to me when we are alone?

It could just be something he does because he's nervous or because that makes talking with you more enjoyable for him. One on one dynamics are different than group dynamics and different people... Flirting

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Anonymous
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I'm tired of living the lie that I'm living now.

Honestly, just hang in there, go to college and let things get better. Life pretty much sucks at your age. I know it did for me. I've yet to find anything in this so called "real world" that is... Guy's Behavior

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Anonymous
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How to play hard to get?

Playing hard to get requires a good balance of being unavailable and then being accessible. The trick is to examine the basic routine and then find a way to briefly get his attention, disappear,... Flirting

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jgrant1100
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Do you believe in evolution, also do you understand it?

Science finds what it wants to find, just like any other belief system. Guy's Behavior

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UKnowMe
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All time favorite Band?

Counting Crows. Other

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wickedillusion66
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Guys would this bother you?

Yeap - you can keep the ring but I wouldn't wear it or make a thing of it. People often keep an item or two, but if he finds it he'll be displeased. And more so at your age. Younger folks tend... Relationships

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Anonymous
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Is saying you are going to kill yourself protected by free speech?

That depends on the context and the extent to which people believe you are actually going to do something. From a civil standpoint, forced institutionalization can occur when someone is a threat... Guy's Behavior

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enviro-shery
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People walk all over me because of my shyness?

That's normal. Most people have experiences like that. Being ignored happens to most everyone now and then. In your lab case my guess is that this guy has a thing for the other girl. Just a guess... Society & Politics

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Anonymous
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Do you believe that people who are not of your religion are condemned?

No. My strongest beliefs lie in Taoism and Buddhism. Besides, do the math. If you believe in condemnation then you believe in hell. The concept of Armageddon is part of Christian, Jewish and... Guy's Behavior

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doctorwhofan23
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What should you do if you feel no one likes you?

Generally that means people want you to lighten up. Though we all get bored when others talk too much, we find too much quiet disturbing. I once had a roommate that kept to himself and didn't say... Guy's Behavior

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