PHILR

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Relationship: Widowed

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MY RELATIONSHIP WAS MARRIED BUT MY WIFE PAST AWAY 1-10-2012 SO IM A WIDOWER WHICH SORT OF MAKES ME SINGLE I GUES.


WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I WAS THE UBER

SHY AND QUIET GUY. GIRLS DISCRIBED ME AS BEING THAT NICE SWEET GUY WITH THE WAVY HAIR. MY ICON PIC IS ME FROM HIGH SCHOOL IN 1966.

MY SOCIAL SKILLS WERE NEXT TO NILL ,SO I REMAINED ALMOST DATELESS THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL UNTIL NEAR THE END OF MY SENIOR YEAR.

FORTUNATELY AS I GREW OLDER (LATE BLOOMER THEY SAY) THINGS CHANGED .

I'M STILL CLUELESS TO A DEGREE AS TO THE CHANGE BECAUSE I'M THE SAME GUY. HOWEVER NOW I GET FLIRTED WITH(THIS SOMETIMES IN FRONT OF MY WIFE) WHICH OF COURSE CAUSES PROBLEMS.

SO BASICALLY SPEAKING I'M THE NERDY GEEKY SHY NICE GUY THAT GIRLS WOULDN'T GIVE THE TIME OF DAY TO.

SO TO A DEGREE I HAVE SOME EXPERIENCE IN ANSWERING QUESTIONS ALONG THESE LINES.


TO UPDATE MY PROFILE I LOST MY WIFE AFTER AN EXTENDED STAY IN THE HOSPITAL WE WERE MARRIED 39 YRS AND 13 DAYS. SHE PASSED AWAY 1-10 2012. I'LL MISS HER .


SOMETHING I'D LIKE TO SHARE WITH SOME OF MY FRIENDS AND THOSE NICE GUY TYPES (WHICH I'M ONE OF THEM) THINK ON THIS.


WHEN WE WERE YOUNG WE WERE THE BOYFRIEND NO GIRL WANTED AS SHE CLAWED HERE WAY TO THE SUPPOSE DROOL WORTHY DOLT SHE THOUGHT WAS SO COOL AT THE TIME. WELL NOW THAT WE ARE OLDER WE'RE THE HUSBAND THAT EVRY WOMAN DREAMS OF AND WANTS.


I DON'T BELIEVE IN THE KNIGHT IN SHINEY ARMOUR PHILOSPHY (I CAN HER THEM GASPING NOW LOL). WHY YOU MAY ASK ITS BECAUSE A SUITE OF ARMOUR HIDES AND PROTECTS THE MAN FROM HARM. HOWEVER A SUITE OF ARMOUR ALSO HIDES WHOSE IS BEHIND IT. ASK ANY DIVORCED WOMEN WHOSE BF/ OR HUSBAND SWEEP HER OFF HER FEET BY HER THINKING HE WAS A KNITGHT IN SHINY ARMOUR BUT LATTER FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS A CHEAT ,LIARER , OR ABUSIVE IN SOME MANNER. SHE ONLY SAW THIS AFTER REMOVED THE ARMOUR SO TO SPEAK. JUST LIKE YOU CAN'T SEE THE MAN WITH OIT ON UNTIL HE REMOVES IT. STOP AND THINK ABOUT IT....

A NICE GUY STANDS BEFORE A WOMAN WITH NO ARMOUR SUITE ON SO TO SPEAK . YES SHE SEE'S WHAT SHE ASSUMES TO BE WEAKNESSES BUT YET AT THE SAME TIME SHE ALSO SHE'S SEE'S HIS STRENGHTHS ALSO . HOW MANY GIRLS/WOMEN TELL THE NICE GUY NOT TO CHANGE THE REASON BEING THEY SEE THOSE STRENGHTS THEY WANT THAT , BUT ARE BLINDED BY THE DAZZELING SUITE OF ARMOUR THE JERK/PLAYER OR BADBOY WEARS.


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