Most Helpful Guy
Most guys hate V-day. It is one night we are commercially expected to provide to women and stupidly spend massive amounts of money on flowers that will be garbage in 3 days in order to one-up the next guy so she can brag to her friends the following day. It is all about the sentiment for women. Guys do it so they get sex in return, that's it! Therefore, if your guy doesn't follow suit, you do not reward him with sex. V-day is a two way street. If you feel you don't owe him sex because that is your bodily right, then you also should not expect dinner and flowers either.
Most Helpful Girl
why should he succumb to the commercialism of v-day. just be glad you have him and let him be who he wants to be.