Most Helpful Girl
Most prostitutes write about how the most asked for sex act of them is the one the client doesn't get at home or at least as much as desired.
Ergo, this is what I've heard is the most sexual gift given, e. g. BJ from a gal that would rather do other things in bed, Cowgirl from one that doesn't get to the big-O as fast doing this.
Most Helpful Guy
Yes go for it make it romantic or how ever you'll like it I guess