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How to get your girlfriend to open up to you Sexually

How to get your girlfriend to open up to you Sexually


Open-mindedness - women are far more likely to get you to the promised land when she knows her guy is open-minded.

Take the pressure off and talk about fantasies first - If you’ve been in a relationship with your girl for a little while then bringing up the subject of sexual fantasies can be a little intimidating. However, the female psyche is such that girls very rarely volunteer information of this kind first so chances are it will be down to you to ‘get the ball rolling’ (that’s a term, not a kinky ice-breaker).

Get drunk and initiate a party game of the ‘adult’ kind -

If you and your girlfriend don’t feel comfortable sharing such high degrees of sexual intimacy, or perhaps feel compelled to collapse into fits of hysterics whenever the subject of fantasies comes up then simply adopt the tried and tested strategy that has been getting kinky Brits laid for years: get shitted and play a ‘Truth or Dare’-type game.

This is arguably the most effective strategy (as long as your girl likes booze) as it is pretty much guaranteed to deliver some highly rewarding results. Without doubt, the reply you’ll get from your girlfriend when you ask to share her deepest erotic fantasy (her ‘Truth’) after she’s necked half a dozen shots and a few pints of lager is likely to be a lot more candid than the one you’d normally get.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I wouldn't recommend drinking too much because it decreases blood flow to the genitals, decreases lubrication and makes it hard to get off.

    I love drinking and I love sex, but hate drunk sex!

Most Helpful Guy

  • This might sound like an absurd bordering on surreal concept:

    BUT

    Just communicate openly with each other sexually and listen to her responses and desires

    • nah thats too easy XD

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  • How about acting natural and letting nature take it's course?

  • You don't need to be wasted. I agree though, usually the man has to initiate. I had to be brave and put it out there first in every relationship I can think of. Some women are more ashamed of sex in general, others don't care and they like what they like.

  • The best way, according to me, is to talk. If she is shy, she'll take her time and you'll just have to be patient. There is a certain trust that builds up when you discuss her thinking and preferences with her. Getting her drunk and making her answer in Truth and Dare is not going to build up that trust, but it may break it down. Personally, it sounds demeaning to me. I'll never do that to a girl I care about. If your girlfriend doesn't feel comfortable enough to talk about something which is going to be a part of your relationship, you two are not compatible.

  • Just stick it dry into her pooper. I heard girls love that.

    Honestly though. How about just communicating your needs and desires and sharing them with your partner while encouraging your partner to do the same? Like, this is not rocket science.

  • Flash dem abs 😎

  • Your methods would work, but it is far from the most effective strategy.

    The most effective way consists of three things:

    1.) Be discrete about your perversions. Share them with her, by all means, but let her know that you won't be sharing them with anyone else.

    2.) Be EXTREMELY good in bed. Don't just read "She comes first" and watch 2GTS, memorize it and know it like the back of your hand. All men think they're great in bed, 99.9% of them are wrong.

    3.) Tease her and let temptations drive her over the edge.

    With these three things, you can get any woman to do anything you want.

  • Yeah, no. Most women's definition of "freaky" is having read 50 shades of grey. Only a handful of chicks are sexually adventurous and the rest you have to pay them for that (like porn stars or prozzies). The rest live in vanillaville.

    • Haha, 50 shades of shame. I almost hate to hear girls talk about it. "Omg so hot omg so kinky omg this omg that". But when you ask if they would actually try any of they react like you just called them the " c" word. I read about 5 pages of it and realized I could have written it when I was 11 years old.

    • @Lonewolf_1296 I know right! It's painful! I know many friends who are girls who talk about that book like they bragging about having done something naughty. I kind of zone out and start talking about Lego or some shit.

    • That! They talk about it as if reading it equals participating in a gang bang or so.

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  • haha good luck getting me and my freinds drunk. The school system ruined that for us.

  • If I have to get her waisted to tell me her secrets then She's just not ready to tell me I'd rather wait for her to b confertable enof that would actually mean she is getting stronger feelings for me if I don't have to Booz it outa her

  • This is why your girlfriend will never open up to you sexually as compared to the guys she would fuck on first night of meeting him.

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a23687-dual-nature-of-women-never-let-a-girl-make-you-wait-for-sex

    Sorry fellas but the fling guy who your girlfriend has hot fiery sex with she loves him even more than the boyfriend.

  • What if she doesn't drink?

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