Men are generally less discriminating when it comes to hooking up. They have standards of course but they generally have lower standards than women do.
Out of 100 women the typical man might be open to the idea of hooking up with 40 of them.
Out of 100 men, the typical woman might be open to DATING 40 of them, but she will only have casual sex with maybe 10 of them.
Girls rarely hookup with guys who are less attractive than them. Girls are only willing to compromise on looks for relationships.
Contrary to the notion of sluts having low standards, they commonly have HIGHER standards when hooking up.
For example, read what this girl has to say about her hookups..
My one night stands were with HOT men; men that I would have considered out of my league... When it came to hooking up, my partners prerequisite were higher; at least superficially, than those I deemed necessary in a man I was dating. Seems weird to see that admission in type but quite frankly my criteria for a man I had a one night stand with were all superficially higher; looks, swag, attitude, dress, etc. When dating, the qualities in the men I sought dealt more with depth of character and intellect. Source:
https://dirtyinpublic.com/index.php/926/casual-sex-equally-desired-notable-gender-gap/
In other words if a girl has casual sex with you then she actually physically desires and lusts for you.
If a girl wants you for a relationship chances are she doesn't see you as much of a lover. I.E. Someone she really lust after.
While she will have sex with you, she sees you more of a companion she can share her feelings and time with, and possibly look to the future in helping raise kids.
Guys who fall into the LTR category are more likely to be less physically desired and it is one of reasons why many girls today actually cheat on their boyfriends with guys who get casual sex and then run back to their boyfriend without him ever knowing.
From a Mytake owner of "Girls in tinder have sex alot" a student in sexology
Girls on Tinder have SEX a lot
She states:
It's also something I noticed that "porn style sex" occurs on these casual encounters and women seem to enjoy that but many don't feel comfortable doing that with a long term partner.
There's the saying, it's pretty misogynistic but also holds some truth, "girls want to be treated like a princess and fucked like a slut". The thing is that is hard to form these two contradicting bonds with one partner. That's why we often see women giving it up for some guys who treat them like "sluts" and have crazy sex in no time, but take a while to put out with a serious partner. ."
The age range of people we questioned anonymously was 18 to 40. There seem to be a lot of single mothers but, apparently also married women ! who use tinder to have casual sex.
The number of women cheating however (this is also discovered through other researches) is also increasing VERY fast, and it is becoming less and less taboo, which in my eyes is a little shocking.
So from this we see women really want to have sex with guys they are actually physically attracted to but at same time these guys do not offer companionship that women want also and often make them feel liked used up sluts. In short, girls want to be treated special, loved and have companionship but at same time they have conflict in associating a raw, fiery desire to the men who offer these things to them.
In the above study "Girls on tinder have sex a lot" It was reported that many girls have casual sex using the app, but only a small percentage of men were having a lot of casual sex while using app.
Men who fit these description:
"Muscular, relaxed, and well endowned"
Another study was done where a dude pretended to be an attractive guy and an average guy and talked to some girls via text.
In one profile the guy was average looking, generally kind to women, being himself and was basically a straight up gentlemen. Many of the girls faind a good girl act saying "they don't do hookups", "only looking for serious relationship", and so forth. Some were kind,a nd put on a good girl act and acted like they never do anything slutty.
In another profile the guy was really hot, and demanding of sex. Told the girls they need to message him, and treated girls like they were garbage. The same girls who were acting like "saints" to the average profile were basically sending nude pics, talking about how they wanted to suck him off, sending flirty text, asking for Skype sex, and wanting to hook up immediate.
Link:https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/q1778900/ce27cc60-0c33-4bb2-94dd-c1d566878dc9.jpg
This is further supported in another study which stated the most attractive guys tend to have the most amount of sexual partners. While suprsiingly the most attractive girls tend to have the least amount of sexual partners. This could be attributed to many guys being too timid to approach or assuming the hot girl is already taken so they don't bother approaching.
So the bleak picture for men is this:
guys who are in the 8-10 range of attractiveness who are confident and fun are the ones getting most of the casual sex. They are the most successful on tinder and are often the guys who will be seeing multiple girls at the same time. The thing is they are less discriminating and often sleep with girls below their league (girls in the 5-7 range) to get easy sex and then settle down with an 8-10/10 girl or a girl who hasn’t slept around.
The average guys get stuck committing to the average looking girls that none of the players wanted.
Also he generally has to wait months for the sex the players got right away. It’s like a trade the attractive guy gets easy no strings attached sex from a girl who maybe isn’t his top choice, and the girl gets to have sex with a hot guy who would have never given her the time of day if she demanded commitment first. So girls “ explore their sexuality” with guys who are out of their league physically and then settle down with a guy who is less attractive than the guys she used to hook up with, but generally this guy has a lower number of sexual partners than she does so she will lie about hers. Generally this guy makes more money so its not a bad deal for the girl.
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