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Do blow jobs bring the man closer to you?

I'm thinking of surprising my bf with a blow job and I'm even thinking of swallowing but I don't know if he'll get more attached to me. Will it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • don't do a sexual act hoping itll make the guy more attached to you. it doesn't always work and you will be hurt if it doesn't. the odds aren't really in your favor. Girl 1 can suck the skin off his dick but that don't mean he will fall in love with her. if you can get him attached to you outside of the bedroom then you have a higher chance at relationship success

    • This is MHO

  • If a blowjob is a surprise then you have a saint for a b/f and yea how much closer can u get to a guy then that?
    And the swallow part... Just do it as comes out not when you have a lot in your mouth.

  • When a guy gives you oral do you feel closer to him? LoL!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I guess so. It's an intimate experience and something both should enjoy.

    I think it's the enthusiasm that does that.

    Could you help me on mine pls? Similar about a female friend: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1370383-is-this-flirty-female-friend-into-me-am-i-into-her-why-do-i

  • If he's not already attached to you, probably not.

    If he's already attached to you, probably yes.

    • Brilliant answer, almost word for word what I was going to write. Simple, to the point, accurate. MHO here.

    • Well he is my bf so I'm sure he is, he always tells me he craves me so I'm hoping a surprise bj will take him over board.

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  • Yes. A great blow job, esp deep throat and a joyful, eager swallow makes for great closeness.

  • if he loves you, he'll consider your bj as an act of love

  • HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    No sweetie. It won't turn into love, no matter how hard you suck him.

    • if you suck a man I'm sure he'll love you ;)

  • If he isn't already close to you, it won't do anything. But if he is already close to you, it will make him happy.

  • No using oral sex won't bring a relationship closer
    I wouldn't expect a girl to do that for me

  • closer to your mouth.

  • Physically, yes. Spiritually/morally/mentally/emotionally? Not particularly.

  • It can. Mix it with a soothing erotic massage before finishing. An orgasm is one thing, feeling loved is another. Coming during oral (as opposed to pulling off) is essential. Many guys like you to swallow.

  • The surprise of it might bring you closer, maybe. The actual blowjob, not so much.

  • Well, he'll definitely like getting a blow job! But this isn't the right way to go about getting closer in a relationship. If you feel distant to him in your relationship there are deeper issues that need to be addressed.

    Side note, I wouldn't expect or want any girl to swallow my cum.. that's kind of gross honestly. I think that is one of the p*rn things that doesn't really happen in real life--any one can chime in on that if they want.

    • I Disagree I would love it if my girlfriend did that and it is awesome when ever she does it.

  • No))))))))

  • yes i guess

  • He'll probably be coming back for more...

  • NO! but every little bit helps lol Listen you should only be sucking cock if you enjoy doing it. There is nothing worse than a crappy bj and you dont need to swallow to make it better, just have a paper towel or something close by to spit into

  • Oh yeah that's to key to my heart at least

  • Nope. Not in my experience.

  • you never did blow job before? some guy like it.. just make sure you are ready to do that perfectly

    • I have, he loves them, but I haven't gave him one in a while.

    • if like that.. you might do that but always make sure he's in the good mood

  • I think if you do it as a surprise it will get him more attached to you but also smaller gestures in daily life can do that too.

  • Physically- near far near far...

  • Yeah, he'll be in your mouth...

    Other than that I don't really think so. It's still possible though.

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